"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Understanding the Idiom: "under the saya"

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Here's a quick story. I know a guy (30+) who always brag about his experiences with multiple courtesans up to the point of having a kid with the particular one. Long story short, his partner when giving birth had postpartum mainly because he caught this guy red-handed, it's a f*cking mess. they seperated for a while and lo and behold, mf ends up marrying her and now he is now in our culture called "under the saya"

Here!'s the context.

In our culture. even in LTR, this is mostly the case in our younger generation, I've been there too but i had enough, the feminine imperative holds the reigns up to the point of commiting suicide, slacking, some can't even decide to the most basics of things without asking their partners first (WTF!). My friend had an argument with his girl, asked us(3 of us friends) to come with him incase of provocations to this spot (parking grounds type of bar) to get his girl, now that we're there the girl already left with her friend, now my friend (who is the boyfriend of this girl) calls her girl why they're not in this spot, she responded that they're already at the terminal just a few blocks. now here's the almost "alpha" part, when were at the terminal (my friend brings his car with us to pick up her girl) the reason why the girl is behaving like crazy is because of jealousy (my friend's long term friend group which consist of 2 girl which i know also) and that my friend forgets to ask permission/update about his whereabouts about them going out for lunch (what a lame reason), now after some pointless arguments my friend asks her girl to come with him and the girl say's NO, now my friend leaves her, crying alongside the street with her friend(asserts his frame). Now, we move to another spot to enjoy a few drinks, after an hour (we didn't even open our brandy) this girl calls him asking to pick her up (using the: im not feeling well card) and guess what? my friend's picking her up. WHAT A FCKING DRAMA this crazy ass biatch (im not mad) just hot/colded my friend. now she is for sure -will be my friend's emotional well. I am thankful i found this forum and will try my best to help my friends out, but my external crusade can't help his internal mind-set about relationship and stuff. i guess I'll just stop this and shift my focus towards my self and studies.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Reactive, guilty, dependent plus anxious avoidant. He lost the frame trying to repair damage. Correct move is to spin plates and let the best woman win your heart. But guy was thinking with his ****, instead of his brain and went for the available vagina, making whole bunch of mistakes trying not to loose her.
 
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