"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Understanding the Idiom: "under the saya"

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Here's a quick story. I know a guy (30+) who always brag about his experiences with multiple courtesans up to the point of having a kid with the particular one. Long story short, his partner when giving birth had postpartum mainly because he caught this guy red-handed, it's a f*cking mess. they seperated for a while and lo and behold, mf ends up marrying her and now he is now in our culture called "under the saya"

Here!'s the context.

In our culture. even in LTR, this is mostly the case in our younger generation, I've been there too but i had enough, the feminine imperative holds the reigns up to the point of commiting suicide, slacking, some can't even decide to the most basics of things without asking their partners first (WTF!). My friend had an argument with his girl, asked us(3 of us friends) to come with him incase of provocations to this spot (parking grounds type of bar) to get his girl, now that we're there the girl already left with her friend, now my friend (who is the boyfriend of this girl) calls her girl why they're not in this spot, she responded that they're already at the terminal just a few blocks. now here's the almost "alpha" part, when were at the terminal (my friend brings his car with us to pick up her girl) the reason why the girl is behaving like crazy is because of jealousy (my friend's long term friend group which consist of 2 girl which i know also) and that my friend forgets to ask permission/update about his whereabouts about them going out for lunch (what a lame reason), now after some pointless arguments my friend asks her girl to come with him and the girl say's NO, now my friend leaves her, crying alongside the street with her friend(asserts his frame). Now, we move to another spot to enjoy a few drinks, after an hour (we didn't even open our brandy) this girl calls him asking to pick her up (using the: im not feeling well card) and guess what? my friend's picking her up. WHAT A FCKING DRAMA this crazy ass biatch (im not mad) just hot/colded my friend. now she is for sure -will be my friend's emotional well. I am thankful i found this forum and will try my best to help my friends out, but my external crusade can't help his internal mind-set about relationship and stuff. i guess I'll just stop this and shift my focus towards my self and studies.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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