"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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-DJNoob-

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Hi brothers,

I posted a situation i was going trough with this girl i met on the job i while ago, cant find the post now, but i wanted to ask about a few words/concepts i came across the forums.


I just executed the "NEXT" on her and im kinda feeling better, not thinking about her almost at all anymore. She did texted back couple days back but i didn't reply till this day. Which brings me to the first question:


1.How is the "NEXT" properly done.......As in what if you next a girl/woman and she texts or calls after a while even tho you NEXTED her ?.



2.What does it mean when she call or texts back after being NEXTED, and how do you approach this situation ?.



3. I came accoss this word "Oneitis" a few times today and googled it for myself and got "Oneitis, when a man/woman thinks that a specific male/female is so special in every way that he or she cannot come to be with out that person or come to look at other female/male in the same way".

Kinda like an infatuation ???. How accurate is this ?. And if so, how do you deal with this and how do you see/feel the simptoms of this so called "Oneitis" disease coming ?


4. Was thinking about joining an ART class to get my drawing skills and creativity back, thought it would be a nice place to meet women with similar passions ?


Anyways brothers, just a few questions that came to mind :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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1. NEXT is exactly how it sounds.


2.if she comes back sniffing around then its up to you but personally if I think ok, NEXT then thats it - theres too many others around to worry about giving one another chance. If youve gone ghost to see how it affects her Interes level - then you either have her interest, or she is seeing if she can pull you in as an orbiter

3.Yup thats accurate - It springs from having no options/nothing else to spend your time on i.e. no other Plates spinning.

4.Yeah man get into stuff you enjoy - the chances of you meeting people are greatly increased by doing what you like and seeing whos there.

(art classes - bound to be some chicks there right?):D
 

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Hahahah for sure brotha, AND i'm gonna do something i love again!. It's a win win lol
 
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