"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Understanding eye contact

Tbe2014

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If your walking in public and a girl looks at you how do
You read her eye contact from one stare. What are the
Different stares you might encounter and what
They mean .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Masculinity

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Tbe2014 said:
If your walking in public and a girl looks at you how do
You read her eye contact from one stare. What are the
Different stares you might encounter and what
They mean .
You will not be able to tell the difference if you're a beginner. Sometimes, a very subtle delay in her look can mean interest, but basically it is all speculation until you walk over and talk to her. Now, if she's looking over at you repeatedly and locks eye contact or looks away when you look her way, THAT is a sign of interest.

If the girl is staring at you, the best thing to do is walk up to her and start a conversation.
 

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Tbe2014 said:
If your walking in public and a girl looks at you how do
You read her eye contact from one stare. What are the
Different stares you might encounter and what
They mean .
If me and a girl meet eyes I smile, with my teeth. If she smiles back, looks away quickly then sort of slowly looks back up with a smile, or blushes and look away with a smile, then she's most likely interested and all you really need to know.
 
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