I met a 20 something girl recently who is basically a part-time "call girl". She seemed so nice and sweet (and would make a great wife for someone I think) it struck me that she didn't seem at all what I had expected. Does anyone understand these girls at all? How/why do they follow this lifestyle? Is there any way to develop a real relationship or friendship with them?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Babygirl either thinks your a pimp or a trick (a man who will pay for sex or buy her things).
One of the reasons that hoes gravitate to pimps is that a pimp is the only man she can't use her "womanly charms," on. A pimp isn't her lap dog who is captivated by her beauty or sex. His only motivation is the money she brings. By the pimp being the only true man in her life, she grows to respect and love him.
Basically you just follow the rules and stragies prescribed her on sosuave and other sites. If you do that babygirl will repsect you as a man.
Whatever you do DO NOT GIVE HER MONEY OR BUY HER THINGS. The moment you that, you dead in the water and she'll see you as another "trick."
If you play your cards right, you be "menaging" with her and her "co-workers." Good luck.
Babygirl either thinks your a pimp or a trick (a man who will pay for sex or buy her things).
One of the reasons that hoes gravitate to pimps is that a pimp is the only man she can't use her "womanly charms," on. A pimp isn't her lap dog who is captivated by her beauty or sex. His only motivation is the money she brings. By the pimp being the only true man in her life, she grows to respect and love him.
Basically you just follow the rules and stragies prescribed her on sosuave and other sites. If you do that babygirl will repsect you as a man.
Whatever you do DO NOT GIVE HER MONEY OR BUY HER THINGS. The moment you that, you dead in the water and she'll see you as another "trick."
If you play your cards right, you be "menaging" with her and her "co-workers." Good luck.
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If you really believe that you're a ****ing idiot.
"Babygirl" is a pretty good description of her - was this intentional?
I understand what you're saying,however, she calls every guy she mentioned to me "her friend", so it's difficult to say who is what. The guy who I believe is her current boyfriend takes care of her,i.e., doesn't really buy major things for her but seems to pay for everything when they're together, doesn't appear to be "dead in the water" as you state. But then all I know is what she's told me.
I understand what you're saying,however, she calls every guy she mentioned to me "her friend", so it's difficult to say who is what. The guy who I believe is her current boyfriend takes care of her,i.e., doesn't really buy major things for her but seems to pay for everything when they're together, doesn't appear to be "dead in the water" as you state. But then all I know is what she's told me.
I bet you she's mighty attractive. That's the only reason you've hung on for so long. Unless you've got some weird vibe for call-girls.
These girls have a job and they do it. It's their choice and that's how they handle it. They can be sweet, nice girls, inside or whatever. But that choice that they made alone is the difference between whether or not you can hold a relationship with her or not. She has a guy that takes care of her, she has "friends" that she sleeps with. And she has you, who doesn't know much and can't figure her out.
Forget it man.
These girls have a job and they do it. It's their choice and that's how they handle it. They can be sweet, nice girls, inside or whatever. But that choice that they made alone is the difference between whether or not you can hold a relationship with her or not. She has a guy that takes care of her, she has "friends" that she sleeps with. And she has you, who doesn't know much and can't figure her out.
Forget it man.
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I think this is pretty close to what she is.
She is selective. She plays some of the same games most women play, but she seems like a good person.
If this is true, it's hard for me to understand what motivates her and whether she could ever be in a "normal" relationship. Is it primarly money, or sex, or is there something deeper that motivates them ?
Please don't do it
In general, these women can only be refered to as damaged goods. You must remeber that for any Sex Professional ( Stripper, Prostitute, Massage Girls, Sex Suragate, Porn Star) to be able to survive mentally, they have to be able to detach themselves easily. It is very hard to get to really know them because they are very defensive and private about their personal lives. So basically, you can not believe a word they say or project because they are so used to lying already. Remeber, 95% of the population has already voted her to be worthless scum. Unless you are in some kind of unique position where you can honestly say that you know who this person is ( and I mean that in the greater sense, not just her real name) then I would stay away from her.
Basically, she lives way outside of normal society. Are you able to deal with someone who has completely opposite view of life? Yeah, it sounds fine at first, but just wait until you actually have to deal with it. Tell me this, are you willing to date her while she still turns tricks? Are you willing to support her, financially and mentally?. The only reason women get into the profession is for the quick money. Many of them come from broken homes, or have drug addictions, or are single parents. While I can't blame their choices considering their situations, do you truely want to deal with that?
It is not so much whether or not she is a sweet or good person. There are good people everywhere. The problem is that whether she is going to let you be a part of that. And the odds say no.
In general, these women can only be refered to as damaged goods. You must remeber that for any Sex Professional ( Stripper, Prostitute, Massage Girls, Sex Suragate, Porn Star) to be able to survive mentally, they have to be able to detach themselves easily. It is very hard to get to really know them because they are very defensive and private about their personal lives. So basically, you can not believe a word they say or project because they are so used to lying already. Remeber, 95% of the population has already voted her to be worthless scum. Unless you are in some kind of unique position where you can honestly say that you know who this person is ( and I mean that in the greater sense, not just her real name) then I would stay away from her.
Basically, she lives way outside of normal society. Are you able to deal with someone who has completely opposite view of life? Yeah, it sounds fine at first, but just wait until you actually have to deal with it. Tell me this, are you willing to date her while she still turns tricks? Are you willing to support her, financially and mentally?. The only reason women get into the profession is for the quick money. Many of them come from broken homes, or have drug addictions, or are single parents. While I can't blame their choices considering their situations, do you truely want to deal with that?
It is not so much whether or not she is a sweet or good person. There are good people everywhere. The problem is that whether she is going to let you be a part of that. And the odds say no.