"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Underrated Physical Feature: The Smile

ThatGuyOverThere

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I was thinking the other day about what exactly makes a woman attractive (besides the obvious features), and one of the first things that came to mind is a great smile. A great smile can do wonders for a chick's attractiveness. One of my good friends is a girl I just met this year. When I first met her, my first impression was that she looked fairly plain. But as I got to know her better, I changed my impression and she became much cuter and more attractive to me. As I was trying to figure out what caused this shift to happen, I realized it was because of her smile. She is a really happy, sociable person, and she has a such a big, warm and happy smile, and I always feel great when I'm the cause of that smile.

So do you guys agree? Disagree?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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stuka1939

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romangod said:
Also, Agreed.
Yes, you are VERY correct.

As a person who has done alot of research on Orthodontics and Orthognathic Surgery, one thing is for certain.

The size, shape and position of the upper and lower jaws and the straightness and shape of the teeth SIGNIFICANTLY affect your appearance.

Just look at all of the people who has less than ideal sized and shaped noses, but are still attractive because they have nice smiles and jaws that are in balance.

THANK GOD FOR ORTHODONTICS!
 

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ThatGuyOverThere said:
Itrying to figure out what caused this shift to happen, I realized it was because of her smile. She is a really happy, sociable person, and she has a such a big, warm and happy smile, and I always feel great when I'm the cause of that smile.

So do you guys agree? Disagree?
Yeah I agree and I think this same phenomenon happens in reverse, i.e., a guy who's a really happy, sociable person, and has a big, warm and happy smile, will always make a girl feel great when she is cause of that smile basically.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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