"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Underage Clubs in NYC

sA x sKy

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Hey happy thanks giving everyone!

Anyways, my friends and I were planning on going to the city tomorrow (I live on Long Island) and were wondering if any fellow DJ's knew any clubs that are either for underage or allow underage people to enter. I'm 16 if that helps. Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thedoc

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Only time there are teen nights are on school holidays lol. If you have an 18 ID you can get into almost anywhere though.
 

Cassanova_Child

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not gonna happen lol. much easier to have a fake id and try to get into an adult club than finding a teen club in nyc.

the city just doesnt cater around young ppl, its an adult town. suitable for a place that was once called new amsterdam :p
 
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