"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Heizen

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I use axe. It fades really quickly, but it keeps the anti-perspirant effect, then I usually wear my laugenfelter cologn (I have only seen one place that sold it, it smells awesome) on top of that.

Otherwise I use old spice. Old spice rocks :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Heizen
I use axe. It fades really quickly, but it keeps the anti-perspirant effect
Unfortuantly, Axe is a deodorant, not an anti perspirant.
 

Heizen

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Originally posted by Jimbo2k
Unfortuantly, Axe is a deodorant, not an anti perspirant.
Well f*ck me, guess its old spice from now on then.

And in hind sight I should really read the thing more closely.
 

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don't use deodorant much cuz i shower twice a day, but when i do, it's whatever's lying about the house, like gilette antiperspirant

i do use aftershave for certain ocassions though - hugo boss or diesel plus plus
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mitchum has always been my favorite its the only one that actually does what it says
 
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