"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hi,

Me and my gf were dating for 8 months, last 3 months we had fights, she started going out, now she left me because she wants to go more out and be free, but she also wants me, but cant decide what...one week we didnt spoke, then i said some thing and she wanted me back and then no more etc.... she wants to be only friends i cant live with that.
Whats going on?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thought about dumping her and seing how things work outt, maybe she will change her mind.

We were friends for a year before...
 
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zoom5 said:
Thought about dumping her and seing how things work outt, maybe she will change her mind.

We were friends for a year before...
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just get rid of her. she saw you as a beta and now there is no going back, im surprised you two are dating (from the whole friend thing). youre what 16/17? go lift and eat a bnch of food, end up a beast in a year and **** other women. :rockon: :flowers: :kick: :eek: :confused: :cuss:
 
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zoom5 said:
Hi,

Me and my gf were dating for 8 months, last 3 months we had fights, she started going out, now she left me because she wants to go more out and be free, but she also wants me, but cant decide what...one week we didnt spoke, then i said some thing and she wanted me back and then no more etc.... she wants to be only friends i cant live with that.
Whats going on?
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you should have dumped her 3 months ago when her started to feel like go out more without you.

also never wait for woman decide what they want, they never do, keep it in heart, when dealing with woman you have to decide. you who makes thing go anywhere she just join for the ride, if she don't like it, her loss.

only reason she want you around is she feels safe with you and want you to be her save net, after some years opening her legs to guys around if no one want to stick with her she will start to hit you up saying she now decided what she want and she loves you (lies).

again, dump her, the way thing are here, I would say don't even bother to talk with her again just go out and live your life as a free guy you are, any kind of contact from her should be ignored, she don't deserve your time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Um, she dumped me... And wants to stay friends and cuddle and make out frome time to time and not have a relationship for a long time.. o_O
 
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Well whats done is done then man. Just ignore her calls/texts and look to improve yourself for now
 
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disapear, cudling? HAH you don't have time to lose on her fat ass, you save it to a girl who deserve.

at most if at all is she show up naked at your home for you to **** her then kick her out after, because you need to wake up earlyer tomorrow.
but I don't think you can keep your cool and not have any kind of emotion, so best is still never contact her again, if she goes after you trying anything you ignore her, she had her chance and she lost, too bad for her.
 
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