"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Unbelieveable..........PLEASE HELP ME

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Okay, I need to learn how to be constant with this stuff. Everytime something good happens another bad thing happens right after it. Idk, maybe it's just her. Okay so as you all know I've been seeing this girl. ( I know alot of you are probably tried of hearing about this sitiution between us but I need some help) But anyways, we went to the movies on Saturday and we end up making out. (Some of you already know this) So then she was at Church on Sunday. I didn't get a chance at first to talk to her because I was busy talking to others. So then I wanted to isolated her but she was with her friends and I didn't want to be rude and just take her from the group. So she ended up leaving and later on that day I decided to give her call. She said that shes mad at me because I didn't talk to her. So then I got off that topic and asked her "where are we going with this" I basically asked her to be my gf so she responds in a sarcastic way "Hmmm......I don't know". It sound like she was playing but had a attitude at the sametime. I told her she can give me a call when she decides to quit playing games and talk to me for real. She responded with a "yep". Now I thought about it and is there a chance that I was wrong for not talking to her at church? And is it possible that I was too serious on the phone with her? Should I call her? or should she call me? I'm so confused. SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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u gave her the ultimatum which was a good thing if u wanted somethin more which i think u did....... and now u gotta stick with it
 
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Unprez said:
u gave her the ultimatum which was a good thing if u wanted somethin more which i think u did....... and now u gotta stick with it
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What do you mean by that?
 
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You seem really needy of her and you asked her out on the phone.
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No man . Its not needy . U have to be THE MAN . Not just be an AFC thats waits for girl to make the first move .

and DONT CALL again . You said to her now u cant go back in time . If she calls ok if she doesnt forget about her .

And yes , you were very rude with her on phone !! u saw that girl couple of times now you wanted her to say YESS I WANNA BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND ??? cmonnnnn grow up. They like playing games .

And one more thing . Dont stick on her . Get some other girls .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm assuming you never had sex with this chick...

You do come off needy...the asking her out and you not talking to her is two different situations. You asking her out was the bad part.

Basically you killed the excitement for her, you put it in the bf/gf provider frame and if you haven't had sex yet...prepare for a very boring and unexciting relationship.

Look at it from this prospective, a real guy who has no shortage of options, he isn't quick to go into a relationship because he has shi!tloads of options. In a way he kind of loves being single and going in a relationship, the chick would have to really stand out from the hordes of chicks. (This usually takes months of being together to realize)

Needy guys have no other choice so they are quick to go into relationships even if they don't have sex, because if there in a relationship, eventually they will have sex atleast ONCE in the coming months or years.

You not talking to her is irrelevant, I'd take it as a basic congruence test, what is the real problem is you asking her out lol, I'm not surprised that she responded that way either.
 
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