"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Unbelievably Pissed Off

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So 3 of my friends and I liked the same girl. We didn't tell each other we liked her because we didn't want to compete with other and if we told then we'd all have to let her go. Instead we had an unspoken cometition for her. Anyways one of them won like five months ago.

In the process of getting to know the girl (I was a really big AFC compared to now) I asked her what was the biggest trait she wanted in a boyfriend. Like most girls she said she wanted someone who was nice. I, like an idiot, listened to her and was nice every time I was around her. Turns she subconsiously prefares the a**hole.

The main reason I am pissed off is becasue today I found out my friend cheated on the girl. I still love my friend like a brother but I dunno this really bothers me. Not only becasue he was disloyal to a great girl but becasue she should be my girlfriend!

I know this os a pointless thread but I needed to let off some steam. I just feel that is that girl really and truly knew me inside and out I'd have won, becasue I think I am truly a great person. ITS JUST SO FRUSTRATING

Sorry for wasting your time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nothing you can do about it! Forget about it.
 
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f.u.c.k. her man(not literally), just a chick. and dont apologize. real men don't apologize for **** like this
 
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And you are complaining because...???

She's single now...whereas before, she wasn't. Right? Unless he cheated without her knowing...

Anyways, stop thinking about the past (what you could've done), and focus on the NOW. You can't change the past, only the future. What can you do NOW to make yourself happy?

Oh, and the age old advice for girls applies to your friend as well: love him (not sexually of course) or leave him.

luck!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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