Unbelievably Pissed Off

[originaldj]

So 3 of my friends and I liked the same girl. We didn't tell each other we liked her because we didn't want to compete with other and if we told then we'd all have to let her go. Instead we had an unspoken cometition for her. Anyways one of them won like five months ago.

In the process of getting to know the girl (I was a really big AFC compared to now) I asked her what was the biggest trait she wanted in a boyfriend. Like most girls she said she wanted someone who was nice. I, like an idiot, listened to her and was nice every time I was around her. Turns she subconsiously prefares the a**hole.

The main reason I am pissed off is becasue today I found out my friend cheated on the girl. I still love my friend like a brother but I dunno this really bothers me. Not only becasue he was disloyal to a great girl but becasue she should be my girlfriend!

I know this os a pointless thread but I needed to let off some steam. I just feel that is that girl really and truly knew me inside and out I'd have won, becasue I think I am truly a great person. ITS JUST SO FRUSTRATING

Sorry for wasting your time.

 

[adpreston1988]

I've had that happen to me numerous times

 

[dot]

Nothing you can do about it! Forget about it.

 

[charlie brown]

f.u.c.k. her man(not literally), just a chick. and dont apologize. real men don't apologize for **** like this

 

[Soapz]

And you are complaining because...???

She's single now...whereas before, she wasn't. Right? Unless he cheated without her knowing...

Anyways, stop thinking about the past (what you could've done), and focus on the NOW. You can't change the past, only the future. What can you do NOW to make yourself happy?

Oh, and the age old advice for girls applies to your friend as well: love him (not sexually of course) or leave him.

luck!