Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Unbelievable

slogan63

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Knew this stripper for serveral years. Didn't really have a lot to do with her. Started seeing her more frequently until she asks if we can go out. Take her out end up making out in the car her pants are off. Take her out a second time, end up at a hotel, oral sex not intercourse as "She isn't ready for that" Go out a third time to get a hotel, **** hits the fan as I don't have my driver's license and she doesn't have hers so we can't rent a hotel.
We go have dinner she goes her own way, I go mine. Try and hook up with her later, doesn't return the calls. I get sick of it and see her at the club the other night and say, look this just isn't working out for me. blah, blah, blah.
She then turns to me and says, It's because I'm in love with someone else, after you left the other night I called this guy who gave me his card and we hung out. I didn't sleep with him but I am now.
then she tells me how jealous she was that someone else was dancing for me when she came in. The outrageous part is that she sees not dicotomy in telling me she f***cking someone else and has no intention of f*cking me and being jealous that my attention is elsewhere.

Moral is never drop your guard. Remain in charge and give as litte as possible.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bourne

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I understand the moral of the story, but don't become filled with hate because you picked a wrong girl.

Come on, you should know better then picking a stripper, wrong place, wrong time, wrong girl to base your conclusions on. Most strippers have emotional issues as well as deep psycological as well. Flaky as you can get. Not all, but most.
 

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Absolutely correct. Don't get me wrong, I didn't "fall in love" with her but the thought of banging her got to me. If I had to be honest with you my brothers, I would have to admit that I started chasing it. No hate here, just amazement at the I"m f*cking some else, but am jealous of her line she gave me.
 

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I've been a strong believer in the following "Pay attention to what a women does not what she says", this was perfect example of that.
 

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Mad because a Wh0re dumped you?

She's not LTR material anyway. She's probably fuked hundreds of men. Yuck.

Hopefully she didn't suck some guys dik just before she french kissed you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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