JonDuan
Don Juan
This is all within my school btw and it's been between me (18 and in final year before university in a few months) and this other girl that's 17 and in the year below me, it's just 2 years in this mid point between high school and university, it's a UK thing.
Today, i found out from a friend in my year (that's friends with her) that she thought i was stalking her! and 'always coming up to her', anyway this story has some history, it's 3 weeks or so in the making, to make it short and sweet, she's a very pretty girl, looks really natural, light brown hair, eyes etc. She's hot and apparently she's been getting attention from guys a lot in her year as well as from some guys in my year (unfortunately i only realise this out AFTER I approach her, may have changed my initial approach if i knew)
so one Friday, me and the guys went out and drank a little, it was friday afternoon so everyone was a bit hyped and quite a few dozen other guys in our year just went out and came back to school drunk. we ve had this weird tradition of doing that, coming back and then my friends would just go with no hesitation and talk to some girls - that was the plan
That friday, well it happened (my friends failed, miserably) but i on a spur of the moment saw this girl, sitting on her own on the otehr side of the room and i just went for it (not drunk or anything but just hyped), straight just was like "i've seen you around quite a bit, what's your name, what are you studying, how do you like the school etc etc" and it went well. great, see her as a casual friend i can go up and talk to later on
THEN this is probably what worsened my rep, my fairly drunk friends bust on over and talk to her, being all excited and over the top, they probably put her off being a bit TOO full on. She was just sitting there like...... Ok :nervous:
anyway my friends aren't THAT important to this latest development, it's related specifically to me, This part is significant as well - the following week on a Wednesday I see her with her friend that was there with her when my friends went up to talk to them. Ok fast forward to wednesday i just straight up go over and talk to her, i'm like what's up, how was the film you watched (asked her what she was doing on the weekend she said she was watching the film yadda yadda yadda), the convo was a bit dry, i felt like i had nothing to say but whatever i was trying. Her looks are intimidating... didn't really go anywhere, I leave the table they're at, they leave and come back a few minutes later
I'm walking past them both sitting at a table and her friend asks me why I keep coming up to her and talking to her, asks me if i like her, I say "no not really, as a friend anyway, i just wanna get to know her....." I think that's fair enough, i was telling the truth anyway, the chick's hot but i wasn't going for her number, it was just making a casual friend as far as i was concerned
There's some banter with both of them and my other friend that i bring over and we both talk to them for a bit but this is an epic fail.... they don't take my friend seriously, see him as an immature lil kid and they patronise him like crazy. Joking around about *******s, sex etc and he's shows' he's clearly inexperienced.
anyway ALL of that was literally just 2 separate days, the friday and the following Wednesday, remember that I've gone up to this girl TWICE. TWICE ok.... fast forward the easter holidays to well.... today, first week back at school and this shocking revelation comes out that the girl thinks i've been stalking her....................... WTF :crackup: It's ridiculous but hilarious, remember i've gone up to her to talk on TWO SEPARATE OCCASIONS but apparently I was 'everywhere' and 'always coming up to her' :crackup: well my friends' found it hilaaaaaaaaarious of course and didn't really help, i don't find it that funny but i'm angry and that utter BS
:cuss: that is harsh, that's extreme to call a guy out on something like stalking, i mean really? she's soooo far up herself like, I was a little pissed but mehh I'm unmoved mostly, i just don't want my rep ruined by some uptight b*tch that think she's the hottest thing on earth. Totally unbelievable..... maybe i did give off a cold, not that fun vibe but WOOOW she thought i was stalking her, woooow you know what, I hope she actually DOES get stalked so she can actually find out what it means to get stalked....
Today, i found out from a friend in my year (that's friends with her) that she thought i was stalking her! and 'always coming up to her', anyway this story has some history, it's 3 weeks or so in the making, to make it short and sweet, she's a very pretty girl, looks really natural, light brown hair, eyes etc. She's hot and apparently she's been getting attention from guys a lot in her year as well as from some guys in my year (unfortunately i only realise this out AFTER I approach her, may have changed my initial approach if i knew)
so one Friday, me and the guys went out and drank a little, it was friday afternoon so everyone was a bit hyped and quite a few dozen other guys in our year just went out and came back to school drunk. we ve had this weird tradition of doing that, coming back and then my friends would just go with no hesitation and talk to some girls - that was the plan
That friday, well it happened (my friends failed, miserably) but i on a spur of the moment saw this girl, sitting on her own on the otehr side of the room and i just went for it (not drunk or anything but just hyped), straight just was like "i've seen you around quite a bit, what's your name, what are you studying, how do you like the school etc etc" and it went well. great, see her as a casual friend i can go up and talk to later on
THEN this is probably what worsened my rep, my fairly drunk friends bust on over and talk to her, being all excited and over the top, they probably put her off being a bit TOO full on. She was just sitting there like...... Ok :nervous:
anyway my friends aren't THAT important to this latest development, it's related specifically to me, This part is significant as well - the following week on a Wednesday I see her with her friend that was there with her when my friends went up to talk to them. Ok fast forward to wednesday i just straight up go over and talk to her, i'm like what's up, how was the film you watched (asked her what she was doing on the weekend she said she was watching the film yadda yadda yadda), the convo was a bit dry, i felt like i had nothing to say but whatever i was trying. Her looks are intimidating... didn't really go anywhere, I leave the table they're at, they leave and come back a few minutes later
I'm walking past them both sitting at a table and her friend asks me why I keep coming up to her and talking to her, asks me if i like her, I say "no not really, as a friend anyway, i just wanna get to know her....." I think that's fair enough, i was telling the truth anyway, the chick's hot but i wasn't going for her number, it was just making a casual friend as far as i was concerned
There's some banter with both of them and my other friend that i bring over and we both talk to them for a bit but this is an epic fail.... they don't take my friend seriously, see him as an immature lil kid and they patronise him like crazy. Joking around about *******s, sex etc and he's shows' he's clearly inexperienced.
anyway ALL of that was literally just 2 separate days, the friday and the following Wednesday, remember that I've gone up to this girl TWICE. TWICE ok.... fast forward the easter holidays to well.... today, first week back at school and this shocking revelation comes out that the girl thinks i've been stalking her....................... WTF :crackup: It's ridiculous but hilarious, remember i've gone up to her to talk on TWO SEPARATE OCCASIONS but apparently I was 'everywhere' and 'always coming up to her' :crackup: well my friends' found it hilaaaaaaaaarious of course and didn't really help, i don't find it that funny but i'm angry and that utter BS
:cuss: that is harsh, that's extreme to call a guy out on something like stalking, i mean really? she's soooo far up herself like, I was a little pissed but mehh I'm unmoved mostly, i just don't want my rep ruined by some uptight b*tch that think she's the hottest thing on earth. Totally unbelievable..... maybe i did give off a cold, not that fun vibe but WOOOW she thought i was stalking her, woooow you know what, I hope she actually DOES get stalked so she can actually find out what it means to get stalked....
