"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I feel myself falling getting too attached to this girl, making her out to be more than she is, having my mind clouded. Any tips to stop thinking about her?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey man, If you cant get this gurl, like theres no way, then you jus gta try goin out an pullin other gurls, so u can say to yourself, 'id really love to pull her, but I cant cus im involved wit this other gurl now, an it would be crazy to leave that!'
Try an look at her faults aswell!!
 
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Is replacing a girl with another girl to get the first one out of your mind the only way? I mean I know for a fact that it's worked for me before, but doesn't it just cause a never ending struggle? You'll eventually have to get the next girl out of your mind, and the next, etc...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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im with this girl, im not chaisng her, but ive found myself changing my moods, and alwayz thinking about her, so hard to concentrate on school etc. It didnt start off this way, i just dont want to dig myself into a hole where i start acting weird around her
 
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