"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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umm what now?

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me and this chick have been going out and having fun lately. she comes to my work and we started talking. we went out a couple of times, bowling and stuff. we were about to go trick or treating but then she called and acted as if she was sick. i can tell that she was lying because i saw her 2 hours before she called and she was so happy that we were gonna go out! and after she called, i saw her friend and she was like, i'm about to go to her house you wanna come? i said what are you guys gonna do. shes like were gonna go trick or treating. i said i was busy.

so shes lying to me now. acting sick. i was kinda bummed out that we couldn't go out trick or treating, but i said whatever and i went to a party uneil 2:30am last night, lol. what should i do when i see her again? should i ignore her? i wanna make her feel like **** kinda the way she made me feel? anybody know waht i'm talking about? lol i'm bored. time to go to work. late.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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describe ur relationship with her, how long uve known eachother, your feelings towards eachother, how far youve gone with her, etc... etc... etc...
 

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fvcking call her on her ****.

she played you? did she waste your time? if you feel angry enough, unleash it in a cold-hearted and logical tone while looking her full on in the eye.

I don't like mind games like this sh1t. every girl who takes them too far with me does it once before learning just what a big mistake it is. you need to stick to your guns and not take disrespect.
 

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This chick needs to be told. Listen to Porky.
 

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"Sorry I couldn't come trick or treating with you."
"It's alright. I knew you were a bìtch anyway."

You know where I'm going with this....

If she didn't want to go, she could've just told you. In my opinion, it's not a big deal if she doesn't want to go, and tells you about two hours before it happens. Instead, she makes up this bullshìt story about her being sick....

You're nobody's tool.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by idiot_boyfriend
and tells you about two hours before it happens.
that's a problem too.

she broke plans with you at the last minute. what does that do to your evening?
 

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she broke plans with you at the last minute.
Well, two hours is not really last minute.

If she told me she didn't want to come, I wouldn't be too thrilled....but I wouldn't be pissed off.

Of course, I would want to schedule another time to do something.

what does that do to your evening?
Not much. I can still have fun.

surface1030 already said that he went to a party.
 

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thanks guys. i'm not gonna let this ***** treat me like ****, **** her. we have known each other for one month now but since the first day we met we started to talk alot and even then we started hugging and laughing our asses off. out of a sudden she does this ****. forget her. i'll just treat her like a ***** and make her earn it next time. hey but no doubt the party was the bomb haaha there were girls taking shots and stripping. in a way i'm glad that i didn't go with her but in a way i'm angry cause we could have hit it off perfectly. her loss =D
 

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it is her loss, and you need to be firm on this.
 

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What a ****ing *****. Don't take that from her. Cut all connections and if she cares at all she will come crawling back like a ***** that lost her pvssy. Haha, that made no sence.... I crack me up...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Supero Masculus
What a ****ing *****. Don't take that from her. Cut all connections and if she cares at all she will come crawling back like a ***** that lost her pvssy. Haha, that made no sence.... I crack me up...
hahha that cracked me up too. what do you mean cut all the connections. like ignore her and dont pay any attention to her? try to spend the least time with her?
 

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i play cs lol

and yeah just be a total **** towards her and call her a lying *****. and just dont take any ****. Youre the alpha male not her.
 

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Originally posted by ireallywantgirls
i play cs lol

and yeah just be a total **** towards her and call her a lying *****. and just dont take any ****. Youre the alpha male not her.
are you kidding me?

tha'ts how you get slapped. that's how you make girls cry and end up being hated by the entire female population at your school.
 

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let's not forget that if you demean a girl by calling her all sorts of nasty names, she will cry, and she will hate you.

jesus christ.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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