"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Umm...Stalker?

DJoftheTheater

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Okay, so I'm a senior and there's this girl in my grade who's really good friends with this one sophomore...and so we met. Now, the sophomore and I were pretty good friends for a while and did some exracurricular things together, then she messages me on FB to tell me that she likes me...I explain that I already had a gf and stuff (she knew that at the time) so we kind of ljbf it up...then she says some stuff about one of my friends and we got in an argument that I've used as an excuse for not staying friends with her....fastforward...she put a blog up on myspace after that gf and I broke up about how she is so sad we don't talk anymore...she talked about it ith a few of my friends and someone laughed, so apparently she broke down crying :cry: and a bunch of people read that blog and made fun of her for it. Now she made another blog, more obviously about me, and I just read it.

I don't know, I definately don't want to have anything to do with her, but I also don't want to mock her cause we have lots of mutual friends and I don't want to hurt her more...so how can I deal with this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Unprez

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nothin...this should be the least of ur problems right now... a girl that likes u but u don't....but be humble bout it...and worry bout things like ur grades and career
 

Bizzaro

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Bow out. Leave her be. Talking with her and initiating more forms of communication is just going to keep her hooked on you.


Just let her be, let her breathe and eventually she'll start breathing someone else.
 
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