"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Ultimate Pick-up Artist Challenge

COD

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2006
Messages
1,197
Reaction score
30
Ok heres my proposal.............

I am seeking STANDARDIZED TESTING TO determine the best of the best and since everyones opinion differs of who exactly is the best...... I suggest setting a bench mark, a test both written and in field to determine who that is.

To be considered, a master Duan Juan should be proficient in several venues.

SPEED DATING-should be able to get SEVERAL matches or at the very least match with the super hottie that every other guy picked.

NET DATING-should be able to create a cool profile that reaps success and design email templates that EXTRACT PHONE NUMBERS in a moments notice.

BARS/CLUBS/PARTYS-must be able to approach and trigger attraction and attain any type of close (phone # for future close, sex that same night-immediate close)

DAY GAME-must be able to initiate attraction durring the day in non-date atmospheres and extract #'s/personal info in a short period of time.

CELL PHONE-should be able to set up date/entice on the phone.

TEACH/INSTRUCT/WRITE-should be able to articulate wisdome in a tip form with specifics/details that ACTUALLY WORK.

a true DJ should also have knowledge of obstacles and how to circumvent each (co ck blockers, online competition, variety of female personality types, etc.

A standardized written test designed to weed out wannabe's, level 1's, etc. Then in field testing (can bring wingman or camera for social proof).

Example: I designed a email, sent it out, and then got responses, then I would get voicemails of women that responded.

Point system-1 point for attempt, 1 point for info extraction, 1 point for make out session, 1 point for sex.

Additional points rewarded for time spans (shotest time frames in each category get more points) 1-4 minutes=5 point, 5-30 mintues=4 points, 1-24 hours-3 points, 2-3 days 2 points ,etc.

Once completed, a true diploma should be rewarded.
 
Last edited:

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Gangster Of Love

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 27, 2002
Messages
2,574
Reaction score
66
Age
52
Location
Los Angeles
What is your plan?

COD said:
Ok heres my proposal.............

I am seeking STANDARDIZED TESTING TO determine the best of the best and since everyones opinion differs of who exactly is the best...... I suggest setting a bench mark, a test both written and in field to determine who that is.

To be considered, a master Duan Juan should be proficient in several venues.

SPEED DATING-should be able to get SEVERAL matches or at the very least match with the super hottie that every other guy picked.

NET DATING-should be able to create a cool profile that reaps success and design email templates that EXTRACT PHONE NUMBERS in a moments notice.

BARS/CLUBS/PARTYS-must be able to approach and trigger attraction and attain any type of close (phone # for future close, sex that same night-immediate close)

DAY GAME-must be able to initiate attraction durring the day in non-date atmospheres and extract #'s/personal info in a short period of time.

CELL PHONE-should be able to set up date/entice on the phone.

TEACH/INSTRUCT/WRITE-should be able to articulate wisdome in a tip form with specifics/details that ACTUALLY WORK.

a true DJ should also have knowledge of obstacles and how to circumvent each (co ck blockers, online competition, variety of female personality types, etc.

A standardized written test designed to weed out wannabe's, level 1's, etc. Then in field testing (can bring wingman or camera for social proof).

Example: I designed a email, sent it out, and then got responses, then I would get voicemails of women that responded.

Point system-1 point for attempt, 1 point for info extraction, 1 point for make out session, 1 point for sex.

Additional points rewarded for time spans (shotest time frames in each category get more points) 1-4 minutes=5 point, 5-30 mintues=4 points, 1-24 hours-3 points, 2-3 days 2 points ,etc.

Once completed, a true diploma should be rewarded.

How about everyone prints the above post, and examine which areas you need most work on, and get to work on it ASAP. Check mark and make notes for yourself to track progress, etc. Find the help you'll need to get better at all of those. It is like a sales person who is only as good as his weekest area.

No need to post in public, as it won't prove anything. Everyone should already have a list like this, and another list including all the areas/sub-categories they need to get to work on.
 
Top