"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ultimate Equation Of Sex : "UP Is DOWN"

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Eureka...Eureka...
It's Mathematics and It's Complicated...
But it's the Ultimate United Equation Of Sex...which explains EVERYTHING...


Equation I.
Men (Carrier Of Sex) <=======> Women (Carrier Of Emotions)

[ Explaination : Men carry sperms and technically stay potent throughout their lives]
[ Explaination : Women stronger emotionally and socially]

Equation II.
Since Man & Woman complete each other...
Men (Want Emotions) <=========> Women (Want Sex)

[ Explaination : Only Men are classic AFCs]
[ Explaination : Multiple Orgasms, think only about sex etc. ]

Equation III.
But since world is fundamentally narcisstic and insecure...
Men (Assume that women only want emotions) <============> Women (Assume that men only want sex)
*which are truly their own needs.
And hence we have world full of AFCs and wh0res...of different intensities.
Though, none are appealing to any of the genders respectively since they are suppliers of the wrong commodity.


Equation IV.
Because of the Same Narcisstic and Insecure Brain.
Men (Fantasize a wh0re) <==========> Women (Fantasize a Nice Guy)
But if put in a real sitiuation...
No Man no matter at what level of AFCdom...would want to get rid of a slut or would not be happy with her in a relationshp.
And similarly a Woman no matter how naive...would instinctually want to get rid of the Mr. Nice Guy.


One More Case of Other Extremes.
Case of AWs and Players and why they are so appealing unless exposed.
AWs are Display Boards of Approval for Men (with weapons like excessive praise and persuasion)
Gigolo/Mascular Guy are Display Boards of Sexuality


Problem : Men and Women try to peek into each other's world with their world's Logic.
But miss the point that in their target's world "UP IS DOWN"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Now let me give you a more textual definition...

Men are the ones who really look for 'True Love' and 'The One' and there's nothing wrong with it. Because that's how Yin finds the Yang.

Similarly, Women want Sex. they want to be filled literally and figuratively...

Now Men become so obvious with this desire that they forget that they are the real possesors of Sex. They are the walking talking Sex Guns. Hence, forget their Sexuality and become wimps and wusses.

Similarly, women become so obvious with their for Sex that they become sluts or are abused by unworthy partners.

But none of them is actually looking inside to find what they carry...to attract the opposite sex.
 

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So the Game that both the sexes play (which is the game of seduction)...

That display what the other sex want...not only display but become the ruthless supplier of the right Product. Ideally, a positive and a milder version of Gigolo and AWs to be a successful seducer.

So just like the rule of having best sex is think about your partner's pleasure first. Similarly in seduction instead of achieving your own emotional satisfaction or seeking approval...think about your partner's needs of Sex...and display the right product.

One more analogy I'd like to give over here of Advertising.
Simple principle : You don't display that how much profit you are going to make when you sell Item X. But you display how great the item would be for the buyer. The better you practice this principle, the better profit you earn.

And this confusion is the reason why men n women just don't get the basics...

that men really like emotion 5hit...and women really really like sex.
Because it's obvious for anybody think that rest of the world also sees the world just like them. But that is not true for half of the world in reality.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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it makes perfect sense, and im gonna try it.....


but dude, how long did it take you to think of this? unless u take advertizing classes or something lol.
 

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This is a sick post...but I dont need no emotion from no *****, all I want is her on my **** bouncing up and down
 

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"This is a sick post...but I dont need no emotion from no *****, all I want is her on my **** bouncing up and down" - Bonafide

Bonafide if that's all you want then a hooker is just the right solution for you...just like you pay for your food and clothes...you can pay for sex as well...

After all, Prostitution is world's oldest industry...

I'm sure you don't want that...
 

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"I like it, I like it alot.

So in short your saying 1 sex only carries what the other sex needs ie: emotions for one and sex for the other? See I knew I wasnt talking outta my ass when I said men are the real romantics." -- (.) (.)

There are so many theories around that women are emotional creatures. But they are actually the carriers of emotions just like the men who are the carriers of sex.

Now look at this amazing corelation here...

Men (since the carriers of Sex) - are more visual. Get attracted to looks.
Women (since the carriers of Emotions) - are not visual. Get atracted to Personalities.

But at the same time...
Men (who in reality are seeking emotional companionship) - fall in love or get oneitis or look for quality women.
Women (who in reality are seeking sex) - though marries a 'provider' guy but still cheats on him.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Men - sex organ - Penis
Women - sex organ - Mind

Men - get aroused by looking at female form
Women - get aroused by emotional stuff

So if I put it this way,

We can imagine women as a creature who looks at the world (including men) through the eyes if their emotions. So if through some magic I turn a guy into a women...and then ask him what difference does he feel...?

Before he could say that he can feel he has something hanging on his chest..he'd say "dude...world looks a lot different!!"
 

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I am dubious...

I think men and women both want sexual gratification and emotional fullfilment
It's not like either sex has that part of the brain axed out.
 

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Single_Sucks said:
I am dubious...

I think men and women both want sexual gratification and emotional fullfilment
It's not like either sex has that part of the brain axed out.
I agree that it's a bit of both for everybody. We're all human.


Women want emotions as much or if not more then men and men never stop thinking of sex so that equation doesn't make sense.

Masculine men and feminine women I am talking about. However in todays society there are many confused men (AFC's) and women (golddiggers) so in that sense it may make a bit of sense??
 
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