"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ukraine Ready for Peace Talks with Russia

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EyeBRollin

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DonJuanjr said:
I wasn't defending genocide in the first place... Any time caucasian atrocities get brought up, I'm going to bring up other race atrocities. Whenever there is some argument about atrocities, it's always caucasian(nazi) that's brought up. I think it subtlety warps public view that only caucasians are capable of such atrocities. Which is obviously not the case.
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Maybe you are unaware- but deflection comes off as defending the action. Why need to be defensive about atrocities committed by white people if you didn’t commit those atrocities? It is not a personal attack towards you or white people to say the Nazis were evil.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EyeBRollin said:
Sound like a Nazi sympathizer. You are defending them and won’t say their genocide was wrong. Same with what Putin is doing in Ukraine. Putin is a genocidal maniac. Liking his bravado or “alpha” doesn’t excuse the fact that he is a killer.
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inferring someone is a Nazi sympathizer is an ad hominem attack. What Putin is doing in Ukraine is not genocide. To say it is genocide is to demonstrate one's lack of knowledge of history and to denigrate the memories of real genocide - like what's happening to the uighurs, Pol Pot, the killings in Africa during the 70's, haiti, etc.. etc.

Heck, many events in the past, while technically not even genocides, eclipse what is happening in Ukraine. By your own definition of "genocide", one can also argue during the gulf wars (invasion and occupation), the USA has committed more "genocide" than Ukraine.


In other words, stop watching foxnews, cnn, msnbc, and calm the F down...
 
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EyeBRollin said:
Genocide is evil. The Nazis committed genocide, thus are evil. Sounds like this forum has a lot of Nazi sympathizers. This is really pathetic.
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Something I can agree with you on! Genocide is wrong no matter who commits it for any reason!
 
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HaleyBaron

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samspade said:
Yeah, whenever someone brings up the Khmer Rouge, this Cambodian I know is always saying "well what about Hitler? It's not just Asians..." You are not alone in your quest for equality and social justice.
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Haha, what a petty Cambodian.
 
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