Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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UK women 'least likely to care what men think'

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Frank Sinatra advised in the song Wives and Lovers: "Don't send him off, with your hair still in curlers. You may not see him again."

However, it seems that British women couldn't care less after a survey showed they are the least likely to put effort into their appearance for the sake of men.

They have the lowest levels of concern in the world for what husbands, boyfriends and other male observers might think, with only 51 per cent caring whether men liked their appearance, the study said.

Japanese women were second bottom with 53 per cent followed by Americans at 56 per cent.

Indian, Spanish and Korean women were far more worried about having a man's seal of approval, but it was Russia which topped the poll of 10,000 women, with 77 per cent saying that they cared what their men thought.

Janet Saunders, of Clinique, the cosmetics company which commissioned the study, said: "British women like to feel confident and beautiful for their own pleasure and take pride in their ******d appearance." Susan Quilliam, a relationship psychologist said: "It's a delicate balance. It's a positive thing in an equal relationship to reference the other person's tastes and preferences sometimes."

The survey also showed, that Britons are among the keenest on cosmetic surgery. Thirty five per cent of British women said they have gone, or are willing to go, under the knife for beauty.

Only Korean women were more likely to consider surgical enhancement, while just three per cent of Indian women condone it.

The survey also asked which of the 12 countries polled had the most beautiful women. Although most found their country's own women the best looking, Britons rated Italian and Indian women more beautiful than themselves.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml?xml=/news/2007/08/01/nwomen101.xml


Lol you poor brits, feminism has gone too far in UK.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What about German women? They should be pretty equal to british women...
 

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However, it seems that British women couldn't care less after a survey showed they are the least likely to put effort into their appearance for the sake of men.
No kidding? Ugliest women on the planet.
 

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All you need to do is to go down to some of the Costas in Spain and see how true this is.. the ugliest, worst dressed, fattest women are British. They make the Spanish women look like super models..

However on the other side, British women are also the sluttiest and put out the easiest.. so.. if you want a quick shag... you can't beat British!
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's a double edged sword. On the one hand, I have a lot more respect for a woman that can live for herself and not for somebody else's approval. On the other hand, I am less likely to be sexually attracted to her if she doesn't put some effort into her appearance.
 

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This is so true.

I am always saying that if my girlfriend reaches this stage or stops caring what I think, then I will leave her and find someone who does. Why would I be with someone who A) I'm not attracted to and B) who doesn't care that much about me? Especially when I take pride in myself and many other women would love a chance with me. I'm not to be taken for granted.

However, I get such a grilling for that attitude. My female friends and even my AFC male friends accuse me of being shallow and a chauvinist and so on. Yet these same women claim they will never go out with a man who is shorter than them or is unemployed?!

I'm all for sexual equality, but that is not sexual equality, it's hypocrisy. I have a choice who I want to be with and I'm not going to settle with a fat slob for the sake of being politically correct.
 
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Well if you're in Russia or India looks are important to a women. Ugly or fat women won't be married. Japan on the other hand focuses more on what the chick does... like cook and clean. If she sucks at cooking or cleaning she'll be single... US and British women don't have to worry about anything, so they place less value on appearance. Most women dress to impress other women anyways.
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Most women dress to impress other women anyways.
Agreed, and also I think that all women, by nature, care about what others think in regards to their looks. Some just have low self-esteem, insecure, mental dissorders, or just too damn lazy to put any effort into it.

That's where these "feel good" articles for women come from. It reinforces that mentality that a women thinks "I'm different" so it's ok to not be honest with myself.

All women care about how they look, bottom line.
 

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Jariel said:
This is so true.

I am always saying that if my girlfriend reaches this stage or stops caring what I think, then I will leave her and find someone who does. Why would I be with someone who A) I'm not attracted to and B) who doesn't care that much about me? Especially when I take pride in myself and many other women would love a chance with me. I'm not to be taken for granted.

However, I get such a grilling for that attitude. My female friends and even my AFC male friends accuse me of being shallow and a chauvinist and so on. Yet these same women claim they will never go out with a man who is shorter than them or is unemployed?!

I'm all for sexual equality, but that is not sexual equality, it's hypocrisy. I have a choice who I want to be with and I'm not going to settle with a fat slob for the sake of being politically correct.
Amen to that.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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