"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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UK taking a step closer to US laws?

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UK ministers are seeking to change domestic abuse laws aimed at providing a clear definition of what constitutes abuse. in short, that definition will be pretty much what any woman complains about....and that wil be pretty much anything.

" "The important thing people need to realise is that it isn't just physical. He never laid a finger on me.

"It's more dangerous because it takes longer to realise what's taking place.

"I went to bed every night and cried myself asleep because I was in love with him.

"He would criticise my clothes, my hair, even my friends. When anyone called on the phone he would just stand there in the background... a seething, silent presence." "

erm...we can be presecuted if we do this?????

the last line made me really laugh...

"The new definition would also cover women who bully their partners."

sure it will !!!!!

http://uk.news.yahoo.com/shake-domestic-violence-laws-planned-060052244.html

it is pretty much a warning to men to not even enter an LTR because at some point, anywoman can pull this sh!t on you and she will be believed
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I can also see the laws being passed on to the workplace too, having seen a couple of guys 'displaced' at the behest of a demon woman, the damage some of these psychos can inflict is potentially very worrying, particualrly so as the law seems to have a blind spot where womens claims of hurt are concerned
 

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Dear BeTheMan,
Sure...But then it only seems divine retribution,this whole stupid business started with Pommy Suffragettes...Over here we have had these Laws for a Long time and yeah,we deserve it too.... Wasn't the instigator of this latest wave of Feminism Germaine Greer?She was laughed out of the Sunburnt Country,went to your Green and Pleasant Land,and used it as a base for her new brand of Femi-Nazism...But,but,but,as Mum used to say "Who Laughs last,laughs loudest",also "Them as lives longest,sees the most"LOL.
 

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This kind of thing is already in practice in the workplace.

I worked in an outside sales position a few years ago for about 7 months, every month except the first I was double or better over quota.

The last few months, my inside sales rep (a female) started setting me up with terrible appointments that led to large gaps in travel and wasted time/resources.

I told her she needed to step up her game on the quality of the appointments she was setting because it was starting to hurt our numbers.

She started crying, went to HR (she was at corporate, I was remote, couldn't defend myself) and complained I "harassed" her and "dismissed" her "hard work". Apparently her story was so compelling, my boss called that afternoon, scheduled a road visit, and canned me at the airport....without verifying anything. It wasn't that I did anything wrong, they just didn't want to chance it :)

All a woman needs is a stick up her ass (which we all know happens constantly with or without good reason), and she can get you fired. It's really quite ridiculous. Document everything.

Not only did I move out of state for this job, but the ensuing months of financial struggle were off the charts, all because a woman couldn't handle a little criticism.
 

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betheman said:
UK ministers are seeking to change domestic abuse laws aimed at providing a clear definition of what constitutes abuse. in short, that definition will be pretty much what any woman complains about....and that wil be pretty much anything.

" "The important thing people need to realise is that it isn't just physical. He never laid a finger on me.

"It's more dangerous because it takes longer to realise what's taking place.

"I went to bed every night and cried myself asleep because I was in love with him.

"He would criticise my clothes, my hair, even my friends. When anyone called on the phone he would just stand there in the background... a seething, silent presence." "

erm...we can be presecuted if we do this?????

the last line made me really laugh...

"The new definition would also cover women who bully their partners."

sure it will !!!!!

http://uk.news.yahoo.com/shake-domestic-violence-laws-planned-060052244.html

it is pretty much a warning to men to not even enter an LTR because at some point, anywoman can pull this sh!t on you and she will be believed
So this also applies to verbal abuse? This is getting ridiculous.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Scaramouche said:
Dear BeTheMan,
Sure...But then it only seems divine retribution,this whole stupid business started with Pommy Suffragettes...Over here we have had these Laws for a Long time and yeah,we deserve it too.... Wasn't the instigator of this latest wave of Feminism Germaine Greer?She was laughed out of the Sunburnt Country,went to your Green and Pleasant Land,and used it as a base for her new brand of Femi-Nazism...But,but,but,as Mum used to say "Who Laughs last,laughs loudest",also "Them as lives longest,sees the most"LOL.
true enough, Germaine Greer, I really cant stand that woman, what the hell goes on in her head god only knows, the sad thing is the is given the oxygen of publicity.


verbal abuse will be prosecutable yes, and as we know, verbal abuse can = challenging a womans point of view, this is alarming, how much further does society have to sink before we see an end to this bollocks
 

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Dear BeTheMan,
Interesting thing about that Bride of Satan,Dear Germaine,my darling Sister,studied under her at Teachers College here at home in Wagga Wagga...
What a Pigs Orphan!!!.....But the interesting thing was,she was mean to the Sheilahs,and sweet as pie to the Blokes...Work that one out?...
However you slice her tho,she has to be one of the meanest Bvitches the Good Lord ever shovelled guts into!
 

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Reminds me of the men on here who got married to a BPD. The things a BPD does to a man, far exeed these definitions of domestic abuse.

Oh wait, they're mentally ill so can't be held accountable for their behavior.........
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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