"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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UK Prime Minister - he’s impregnated another woman

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question to perusers of SoSuave - the UK prime minister Boris Johnson has just simultaneously announced he’s engaged and his fiancee is pregnant - this will be his 3rd marriage and estimated to be his 7th or 8th child (information not fully publically available) - he won the election late last year and is well known to be ‘dynamic’ with the ladies

disregarding his wealth (although not stratospheric) as an obvious asset - his look can be described as disheveled - in my eyes, (not a fan of his political positioning) I admire his noncholence with prevailing political opinion - he got over 51% of all male voters, but only 33% of all female voters - is he a role model or fantasy for how men want to live their lives?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good old Boris stiltskin. For a pale trump copy is going great guns. Europe it does need some balls or they will have to name it new Russia.

actually maybe that's their defensive strategy let all the migrants in so Russia doesn't want it.
 

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question to perusers of SoSuave - the UK prime minister Boris Johnson has just simultaneously announced he’s engaged and his fiancee is pregnant - this will be his 3rd marriage and estimated to be his 7th or 8th child (information not fully publically available) - he won the election late last year and is well known to be ‘dynamic’ with the ladies

disregarding his wealth (although not stratospheric) as an obvious asset - his look can be described as disheveled - in my eyes, (not a fan of his political positioning) I admire his noncholence with prevailing political opinion - he got over 51% of all male voters, but only 33% of all female voters - is he a role model or fantasy for how men want to live their lives?
Boris, like Trump, is a narcissist. This makes his charisma more effective on the stupid and the weak minded, or the similarly pathological. You may have identified one such person if you find someone who has a narcissist as a "role model". Look at what his own family says about him for example.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hi Elliot,
I also admire Boris...And yes he is a bit of a Philanderer,perhaps the Turkish in his blood?.... but he runs rings around both Friends and Adversaries, most of whom have never held a proper job....He was schooled at Eton,read history at Oxford,was Lord Mayor of London and For many Years Editor of "The Spectator"...One of the few Rags I read.
 

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Europe it does need some balls or they will have to name it new Russia.
I'm European, trying to imagine Russia taking over Europe. I'm not sure they'd even want that, by the time they reached France everything would be burnt to the fvcking ground in mass riots and there wouldn't be much left for Russia to want.

Boris isn't going to make any sort of difference regarding Russia in relation to Europe. Putin doesn't care, if he wanted to conquer Europe he would have done it already.
 

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Well I love Europe so I hope so. I was eyeing up retirement in Estonia. But it was a bit close to those fun lovin ruskis and their tanks for my liking.

It wouldn't be a matter of reaching France. With air superiority, hypersonic missiles and high speed air troop transports they could be there in hours.
 

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Dear Serenity,
Relax about Russia Old Chap,the measure of a Nations Strength is its economy...In a scaled comparison of World economies,regarded together with each US State.the Russians are number 13,California is No4,Texas 9,New York11....Canada is No 12...despite a glorious past and potentially being the third Richest World nation in terms of resources,they box way over their weight.
 
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