"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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UK people - has anyone actually watched 'Would like to meet'?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Guitar_Whizz

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Yes, I've watched almost every episode of every series. I found it to be a highly inspiring programme, seeing someone go from dating disaster to dating success in just 6 weeks.

I liked Tracey Cox's flirting and body language advice, and Jeremy Milnes's confidence coaching. Also, the tasks that Jeremy set were often cold approaches in the daytime, so I learned a fair bit.

I'd like to get hold of the episodes on video or dvd if anyone has them, I'm willing to pay for them. Perhaps I'll try ebay.
 

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Tracey cox is quite fit aswell. Always a plus.
 

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Originally posted by WesCottII
Tracey cox is quite fit aswell. Always a plus.
And you know she'd be an awesome shag too. :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Anything Else.
 

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All it does is what a lot of people need. FORCED to go up to people and talk.

Remember the skinny guy they put in combat trousers and a baggy T shirt, looked like a sack of sh!t.

They can't tell the truth, because it wouldn't go down well with women (target) audiences and they wouldn't get the ratings for advertisers.

Unfortunately a lot of the info is typical what women would like you to believe propaganda.

I met Tracy Cox a few years ago, she knows all the tricks for women but apart from basic body language stuff not for blokes, and she was a bit lardy to be honest.

Other quacks include Alan Peas and his Missus, moved on to the more gullible audiences since giving up telesales training.

Peta Heskell is another one even less impressive, but I'll give her her due she's very good at giving media interviews for anything to do with sex.

When I knew her she was doing flirting courses in London.

Just my arragant opinions mind. ;)
 

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Well, i personally think it's one of the best programmes that used to be on TV. It showed real DJ techniques being put to use.. & in the UK as well!

If this site was a TV show, It'd be 'Would like to meet'.

& have you seen the other 'dating' shows on TV? They are pitiful. Especially the American one's. Watching 'Dissmissed' on MTV makes me want to puke.

At least 'Would like to meet' isn't filled with hapless wankers & actually gives some REAL insight into dating & social pyschology.

When it was on it was one of the only programmes i watched every week. & some of the people on there really REALLY needed the help, & it's nice to see a suposed 'hopeless cause' come through & see them becoming a Don Juan.

It's a true inspiration if nothing else.
 
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