"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Uhm ok?

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So I met this girl last week at a small grad party. She calls this morning to see what I'm up to. She's moody (hint hint), and isn't sure she feels like going out tonight. But she already made plans with her GF, and really wants to see me. I set down a time table, and every answer becomes "I dont care." She tells me to call her back in a bit cause she's getting in the shower. Really snippy over the phone. She calls back before I can call, in a totally different mood. The "her" that I was attracted to when we first met. She tells me she called up her friend and theyre going out for a quick bite to eat, then Im gonna meet up with them.

What it sounds like to me is that she's in a mood swing, obviously. But it seems that she wants to be with just me, but feels bad if she shuns her friend. I sense this because she was saying if I didnt want to go out we could just hang around the house and do "stuff", but its not fair to her friend.

To be honest this is new to me. I've never dealt with a new girl @ the time of the month. I dont think I have to worry much about the CF, because its almost like round 2. Do I tread lightly? I dont want miscommunication screwing things up. My other half is telling me that while shes out having a quick bite, her and her GF will be talking about me. That may lead to her GF bailing out to give us alone time. I dont know, I'm probably thinking to far. But I'm meeting up with them @ 10.

So any advice will help.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Heh, just got in @ 5 am. Done deal!
 
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Woops... That's what I get for posted like a zombie at 5 am. Done deal meaning everything went ok. No sex though. BUT the first time I met her, she seemed cute. When we met up last night, she looked totally different. A tad to thick for my tastes. Although I have no idea how that couldve slipped my mind when I saw her? Anyways... To avoid being an ass, we still went out and had a fun time (her friend was along to). We all headed back to her place, and her friend left. One thing led to another and we made out for a little bit. I dozed off for a few hours, woke up and headed home. She's not hideous, she actually looks like the pornstar Brandi Taylor. Just a little too much cushion for the pushin. I dont want to be in this position. :nervous:
 
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Well looks like someone found the answer they were looking for on their own. Congrats!
 
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