"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Uhh guys I'm tired of sex

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PRMoon

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Now you go out and conquer the world!
 

Five To One

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Sorry, we are too busy improving ourselves to help you out with your deliema.

Maybe try to become a better person?
 

Black suit

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Time to go out and travel the world.

There are really places in the world where everybody will ****ing love you just 'cuz you're "foreign." I live in one of those places.

The message from my god, "I created you only to worship me. [Go out and find out why.]"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Black suit said:
Time to go out and travel the world.

There are really places in the world where everybody will ****ing love you just 'cuz you're "foreign." I live in one of those places.

The message from my god, "I created you only to worship me. [Go out and find out why.]"
Where are you from Black suit?
 

#41

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sooooooooooo... what now?
Anyone who brags online that they're bored with sex is just looking for affirmation 95% of the time. It's the SS equivalent of Tom Brady saying "I'm kinda sick of winning championships..."

Just sayin'... :rolleyes:
 

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#41 said:
Anyone who brags online that they're bored with sex is just looking for affirmation 95% of the time. It's the SS equivalent of Tom Brady saying "I'm kinda sick of winning championships..."

Just sayin'... :rolleyes:

hhahahahahahahahaahahahaha good one!


And as to your dilemma... congrats man, you have conquered the thing that nature has programmed you to do so it only means that you now can stop obsessing and actually do things to help the world - instead of thinking with your **** all the time.

Good luck my friend! Give'em hell!
 

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1. Make the sex more interesting
-different girls, more girls, different styles, roleplay if that floats your boat
2. Try out guys
-who knows?
3. Stop masturbating and lose your virginity
-because there's always the possibility youre a wanker in every sense of the word
4. Find something that makes you feel better until you get enjoyment back from sex
-meditating, sports, etc


Now that you know what you can do, what made you lose interest in sex in the first place?
 

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Get into a serious relationship with a girl you love...
uhm


Get rich?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonJuan11

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loving said:
1. Make the sex more interesting
-different girls, more girls, different styles, roleplay if that floats your boat
2. Try out guys
-who knows?
3. Stop masturbating and lose your virginity
-because there's always the possibility youre a wanker in every sense of the word
4. Find something that makes you feel better until you get enjoyment back from sex
-meditating, sports, etc


Now that you know what you can do, what made you lose interest in sex in the first place?
Please tell me your kidding with #2.
 

bam bam

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keep it simple dude why u tired of sex... u know what they say when your tired? get rest lol... take a break and figure yourself out... I get tired of sex and woman on a regular but what keeps me interested in the whole social interaction is I try pulling off the impossible and seeing if I can bring out certain things out of woman ;)
 

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I understand what you're going through. Take a break, try something new with her. Or experience it in new places.

Focus on other areas of yourself that needs help.. life aint just bout dipping in between legs.
 

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go to sleep :crazy:

I don't know how can someone be tierd from sex... I'm a virgin but whatever! If you're tierd maybe you should find some hotter chicks that are really frikin awsome in bed!
Or maybe you're just masturbating too much, dunno.
 

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Well I think as humans we always value what we perceive as difficult to obtain. So the type of sex you're having might just be too easy for you to get so it's about as exciting as seeing your wife of 35 years bare behind. I suggest you try for a different kind of sex. FInd something more exciting and do that. Granted it isn't the best solution, since ventually you'll get bored with that too, but by the time you get boredwith whatever crazy fantasy you're indulging in, regular old sex with a gf or fb might seem worthwhile again
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good. Now start having sex with another human.
 

young_gun

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Try going without it for a week if you're so sick of it. I'm practically dry humping thin air if I go without it for that long.
 

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sooooooooooo... what now?

try having sex without paying for it....u feel way better about yourself afterwards
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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