"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Uh, What happened?

Ether

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So yesterday was a dance at my high school. I had a girl ask me to dance with her about two weeks before. Her friends kept saying that she liked me a lot and that I should ask her out and all that crap.

She hugs me first thing when I get there and I let her go dance with her friends while I danced with about 6 girls or so. I slow-danced with her once and I grinded some more with the same girls. I slow-danced with her cousin and then I saw her tearing up with one of her friends (who's guy ditched her.) So she goes on about how she's mad at me for slow-dancing with another girl and a ton of other crap, but I hugged her and slow-danced with her afterward.

At the end, I asked her out, kissed her, and made-out with her about 3 times then said goodbye.

So I wake up this morning, I get an IM from her friend who's house she was sleeping over at saying that she was breaking up with me. Her friend said she loved me, but more as a friend than a boyfriend. Her friend said she was afraid of getting hurt. The girl IMs me, but doesn't say much at all.

I've come to a conclusion her friend is full of ****, or this girl is nexted.

Anyways, if a girl said she liked me for three weeks, made-out with me, and almost cried because I slow danced with her cousin, what did I do to get her to have that big of a change of heart in a night?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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john paul

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You didn't do anything. This is a high school girl we are talking about. They dont know what they want half the time.
 

DJ_Matthew

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john paul said:
You didn't do anything. This is a high school girl we are talking about. They dont know what they want half the time.
That's why the MAN has to take action and show her what she wants.
 

The Forms

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Good god I forgot how crazy girls are in high school. I mean, they're still crazy when they're all grown up, but not THAT crazy. It's like she's trying to cram as much drama into 24 hours as she can.
 

Ether

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Yeah, everything that was said, was true.

She's nexted, but I just need some time to vent.

This is just aggravating.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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