"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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st3aksauce138

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Is it ok to get boners when making out with a chick? im not sure if she would like it or be weirded out by it. we have bn goin out for about a month now and we havnt realy discussed it.We make out prety much everyday and it happens everyday.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Coffeebazooka

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Pretty normal to get a boner when making out if you are really into it and in a sexual state. I doubt you would get turned off if a woman got wet when you were making out, probably mostguys would get turned on knowing that you turned her on. In the same way I think many women will get turned on if they find out they turn you on.
 
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