"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mtlwlu

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I just woke up, going to go back to sleep soon, anyways I looked at my phone and got a text from a girl that I know has a boyfriend for 3 years, and it says "I love you" a few details
1) theres no way she could of accidentally sent it to me because his name starts with an A, mine starts with a M.
2) We've been hanging out a lot lately, she slept over the other night after we went out to a club
3) she often flirts with me
4) Im a better guy overall, job, car, education, whereas he doesnt even drive yet and we're both 22.
5) uh oh lol

what should I do? shes coming down tonight to hit up the clubs since its frosh week here and staying the night.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don't worry too much about it. Maybe she's high. I'd play along with it and say something along the lines of, "that's really insincere, no flowers to go along with that?" or whatever ****y & funny response you can come up with. Don't take it too seriously yet, since she has a boyfriend. Hang out with her tonight and see what happens.
 
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quick update: she sends a text saying "I should really stop texting in my sleep" (wtf who does that) and then "I dont even remember what i said, hopefully nothing stupid".
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just escalate it. When she's comfortable, just come back on it, as she most likely recalls what she sent you anyway. Put your hand on her leg, look her into the eye and just go like:
"You texted me last night that you loved me and then texted you shouldn't text in your sleep and hope you didn't say anything stupid. You texted me that you loved me. Look me into the eyes, and say you don't love me, and we just forget about it."

Might blow up in your face, might not.
 
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