uh oh

[Demon Wolf]

I got this chick's number on weds. I was at a pub on thurs and about to call my home from my cell to let my parents know I was going to be out late and I accidentally dialed her # and cancelled the call.

Now I am rather nervous about calling her any time soon. I do not want to creep her out. I wanted to wait at least 3-4 days before calling. What should I do when I call her? Should I mention that I made a call to her on accident? I think it was a major screw up on my part.

Cuz now I am afraid when I call she will not answer cuz the cancelled call will show up on her pone as a call and when she sees that I am calling again she won't answer because of the earlier call.

 

[So pimp its scary]

Why wait?

I'll call girls anytime within the week of getting the number, just whenever I feel like it, within a week is usually the ideal time frame, but don't just wait X days for the sake of waiting X days...

 

[stinkyape]

Why wait?

I'll call girls anytime within the week of getting the number, just whenever I feel like it, within a week is usually the ideal time frame, but don't just wait X days for the sake of waiting X days...

Yes. More important is how you sound on the call - Confident, aloof and happy five hours after getting the number is much much better than waiting out the *three day rule* in order to make you appear "not-desperate" and then sounding like a jittery fool who hasn't had any for years....

 

[Demon Wolf]

I have already asked a lot about herself and I feel like I am interrogating her.

From the 2 times I talked to her I know she house a house, why she transferred schools, her major, she has her own house, just gave away some old macs, etc.

While I did not talk a lot just mainly asked and listened.

So when I call her give her a nickname Ex Gretchin the Gremlin.
Try to keep it short and sweet. Do not talk about myself unless asked. Ask her opinion on stuff (not controversial **** like Iraq though). Try to be C n F. Lastly invite her to do something.

 

[jamescr73]

i have found that 2 days is optimum. next day hints at desperate, 3-4 days she might forget you. 2 days is perfect. and when you call, dont remind her who you are. you will seem to her like you feel insignificant. when she answers just start talking to her like one of your buddies, and if she doesnt know who it is, bust on her for it. of course this works when you make a good impression at the time in which you got the number. personally I believe, the only way to make it happen.