“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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uh oh...is the 18 year old interested in me?

Jaun_Don

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I had this cute 18 year old that I hang out with, chat with, talk **** etc anyways she spent the day at a friends place and watched dvds with us etc anyways we shared a blanket and laughed a lot and she kept giving me some interesting looks and giving me a lot of **** but she also did things where she said things and touched my arms and nudged me a lot, she also touched her hair a lot, is she keen? or am I reading it all wrong?.

I know I'm too old for her but I don't want to her marry her.

:crackup:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Jaun_Don

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Originally posted by pancakepalace
You need to test her interest with a close. Ask her out.

Seems good so far.
we have been out once and everytime I ask her she says yes.
 

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lol.. ya.. she's prolly down. Get her alone and plant one on her. Make sure you have condoms handy.
 

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Jaun_Don:
I know I'm too old for her but I don't want to her marry her.
Out of curiousity, how big an age gap are we talking?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by pancakepalace
Seems odd to me that a 28 year old would be interested in 18
Yes, what is there to like about a nubile, fresh, exciting, perky, hard bodied and legal 18yo female?
 

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Originally posted by pancakepalace
Seems odd to me that a 28 year old would be interested in 18
how did you get 28 from 26?

dude, she is actually quite wise and a lot of fun to be with and yes she is seriously cute...I'll keep you posted on what happens.
 

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Sorry, 26 right.

I guess it's personal preference. I am 29 and couldn't really see myself dating anyone less than around 24. 24-38 no prob...

18... I wouldn't know what to talk about.

And talking is important for me. Unless it's just a one night stand.
 

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i am 26 as well.

if she is legal why trip ?

when i am 40 i will still be dating young women

i can never understand how some of you can say no to 19 and 18 year old hot chicks

HOW CAN YOU CALL YOURSELF A MAN !

you are only 26

not 57

you think 26 is old ?

f*ck man you need to get your head right


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

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I never thought there was anything wrong but can I get some tips...or should I just play it by ear?...I'll admit I'm a little rusty but I am sensing that she digs me, she is coming out drinking with me tommorow night.
 

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Whenever there is a significant age gap involving someone who is considerably young, the scenario raises questions. Yes, young teenage girls are attracted to older men, but it is one thing to think about something as opposed to acting out on it. Yes, it is legal for a man of the mid-twenties to engage in sexual relations with an eighteen year old girl and is not inherently wrong; that so long as a girl is legal and not a relative, things are kosher; but the scenario always raises peripheral issues. Usually with this type of situation something is significantly wrong in terms of mental health of the participants. Usually how things pan out is the girl comes from an abusive or neglectful/abandoned childhood and attaches herself to a guy who is either taking advantage of her or is immature. So, I would say go for it but that to evaluate what’s wrong with either her or yourself and if so that you may want to get that checked out.
 

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I thought you were going to say you were 39 or something... but 26!!??! Are you serious? I'm 26 and I can't remember the last girl I dated who was over 22. Eight years is not a significant age gap until you reach thirty.

In a few years you will regret not taking these opportunities.
 

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Originally posted by drZaius09
I thought you were going to say you were 39 or something... but 26!!??! Are you serious? I'm 26 and I can't remember the last girl I dated who was over 22. Eight years is not a significant age gap until you reach thirty.

In a few years you will regret not taking these opportunities.

Green light!
 

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Green light like I've never seen. Go take it to the next step.
And the age difference is irrelevant because you guys are hitting it off pretty good.

Aren't girls < 24 refreshing? They're not jaded and are care-free! Ride her i mean ride that! hehe
 

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she didn't meet up for drinks but told me why she couldn't made up and made suggestions that we should watch a movie and get high soon.

I think there might still be a chance and I think she doesn't like me talking about other girls on chat...cos I asked her about a girl and I haven't heard from her since...uh oh.
 

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Originally posted by Jaun_Don
(she) made suggestions that we should watch a movie and get high soon.
If you fumble with this girl, PLEASE SEND HER MY WAY. :yes:
 
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