"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Uh Oh..deeeeep Trouble!!

illmatic1005

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ok. ive been dating this girl for about 3 weeks..meanwhile a REALLY got girl started to like me..over AOL, i talked to this hot girl..the hot girl was telling me i should leave my gf for her and stuff like that. I wasnt listening to anything that the hot girl was saying, because she's been bugging about it to me for a long time. So to get her to shut up i agreed with everything she said about my gf (most of it bad)...i even ended up saying 'i wish i met u before my gf'...

the hot girl sent this AOL conversation to my gf, who is hysterical crying that i would say stuff like that. I didnt kno what to do so i said she edited everything and all i really said was "i shouldnt date her i kno"...the hot girl edited out the rest of the sentence which said "but i really like her and wouldnt leave her for u'...

so now the whole convo looks like im cheater..

i really like my gf and dont wanna lose her, but what do i do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HandyAndy

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Damn, thats really cold, do you know the girl who edited everything about in person? If so, all 3 of you should meet up and get the truth out.
 

smooth guy

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what are you, 12?
 
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