"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Uh Oh..deeeeep Trouble!!

illmatic1005

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ok. ive been dating this girl for about 3 weeks..meanwhile a REALLY got girl started to like me..over AOL, i talked to this hot girl..the hot girl was telling me i should leave my gf for her and stuff like that. I wasnt listening to anything that the hot girl was saying, because she's been bugging about it to me for a long time. So to get her to shut up i agreed with everything she said about my gf (most of it bad)...i even ended up saying 'i wish i met u before my gf'...

the hot girl sent this AOL conversation to my gf, who is hysterical crying that i would say stuff like that. I didnt kno what to do so i said she edited everything and all i really said was "i shouldnt date her i kno"...the hot girl edited out the rest of the sentence which said "but i really like her and wouldnt leave her for u'...

so now the whole convo looks like im cheater..

i really like my gf and dont wanna lose her, but what do i do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HandyAndy

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Damn, thats really cold, do you know the girl who edited everything about in person? If so, all 3 of you should meet up and get the truth out.
 

smooth guy

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what are you, 12?
 
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