“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ugs and HB, Whats the different?

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When i talked with ugs for while ago, i felt that i was more secure.. emm i mean more relaxed and could talk normarly, but with hb's i started to SUCK at everything.. my conversation skillz sucked.. etc. Why??? why did i feel that way?

ofc i dont have this now.. WHATS the DIFFERENt?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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trance_addict

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because your nervous. Do more interactions with these "HB's", you'll get used to it after a while.
 

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One word.....Pedistooling




Sarge On!
 

lafual

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what is Pedistooling?.. i always wondered what pedestal means orsomething.. can somone explain it ?
 

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basically pedestaling means your putting the HB up on a pedestal, like shes already better than you, even if you just met her. If your talking to an UG chances are you are not attracted to her, but with a HB you wnat to say everything right cause you want to get in her pants so you put her on a pedestal and she uses it to control you. What you have to learn is that her sh!t stinks just as much as yours does
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lafual

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emmm kk, so this means that i have to work with "Rejection or Approaching?"
i always tought that my conversationskillz was the problem.. but i say to my self that i should just "f"#%¤ what she thinks and f"¤% fear"
but i read that,, more often you get rejected you will be more safer orsometimg.. but the thing is that i dont get rejected :/
 

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You guys mean that there are actual reasons why I am more afraid of HB's than ugly war pigz? Besides what they look like, what else is different? Aren't they all the same inside?
 

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to ESPI:

Why do i have that?.. is it something i can do to not struggle when i talk to hbs?
 

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Espi said:
You also need to convey the proper language: Shoulders back; don't lean in to listen to women speak; position your feet away from the target to convey you could leave at anytime; don't smile too much. Look the target in the eye.

Linguistically: establish a time constraint; neg; C & F; kino; number close.

Few questions: How to position your feet away from the target? I mean, if I'm standing, and my feet away from her, then I'm turning my head or torso??? Also, can u give me a note about shoulders and back, how?

Example of time constraint? What I might say?


Sometimes if chick is speaking casually I have hard time understanding her, or hearing her. What happens if I have no idea what she says?? What do I do if that happens several times during conversation?

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Now totally unrelated. Chick approaches me during the night at gas station, asking are there any clubs/parties around, or something like that. That happen several times, I guess because I look good and have a nice car. Anyway, what do I tell them?
 

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Now totally unrelated. Chick approaches me during the night at gas station, asking are there any clubs/parties around, or something like that. That happen several times, I guess because I look good and have a nice car. Anyway, what do I tell them?
You could say something to her like: "How about we have our own party?"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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They're both just people, behind those pretty faces.
 

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Chick approaches me during the night at gas station,
"Sit on my dipstick and I can change your oil."
 

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Average chicks get hit on more often because most guys think they are easier, so they may in fact be harder to pick up.

Hot chicks just get alot of random comments and one liners, so usually appreciate a guy who is confident and approaches them.

I've always found hotter chicks to be more friendly.

Why lower your standards?
 

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If i Approach 3-5 girls everyday.. will i be less afraid for rejection?
but what if i approach the same girls everyday.. do that efact something or?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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