"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ugly sweater and more...

Roober

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Well, since this board serves a wide knowledge base for everything, figured I would get a feel from the other guys here...

I have never been one to enjoy drawing attention to myself. I don't really like wearing elaborate Halloween costumes, don't really wear outrageous jewelry or anything, and most recently, I didn't participate in the ugly Christmas sweater thing at work.

Just curious...
1. what you guys do for these type of events?
2. Does it come across as uptight?
3. I suppose women could see this as not being a "fun guy"? (not like it matters at work though)

I don't know what it is, but it is just not in my comfort zone
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheMonkeyKing

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I agree that it's a bit over the top and not always my cup of tea either. The xennial-millenial generation seem to be a bit obsessive about dressing up.

The secret is not to take it too seriously. I tend to just get on with it and treat it as just part of the social. It ain't really a thing.
 

Glassguy

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I have done the ugly Chrismtas sweater parties. Lots of drinking and fun. The sweaters were quite itchy and uncomfortable though lol.

Its like anything else....what you make of it.
 
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