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"ugly" question

KaLiBuR Da DoN

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FIrst off, i know for a fact that i am handsome. I dont want to sound like an *******, but i kno that my face is handsome. So here comes my question:

If a girl (same girl i talk about in my "confused" thread) says "you ugly" in a joking around way, is that flirting? it sure doesnt feel like it, but i kno she:
1- Doesnt think im ugly unless she is blind and retarded, even if she dont htink im handsome, she cant think im ugly.
2- IS kidding, but i dont know in what way, friend or romantic, i have no clue

Thanks
 

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usually if a chick says your ugly, you bust on her from her bulbuous pastule ridden face, down to her fat a$$, to her cottage cheese thighs, and bowling pin legs and shoo her away

that is the most shallow thing I have ever heard of Joking or not
 

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Isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder? A modest fellow like you must realize that.
 

KaLiBuR Da DoN

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any otha opinions on the situation?
 

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Spanky's right...beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Has it ever occoured to you that not ever woman alive is attracted to you? There are plenty of "hot" women out there that I don't necessarily think are anything special. For example, Pam Anderson does nothing for me. I think she looks trashy. Most guys think she's the most beautiful thing on the earth. Maybe she doesn't think you're hot. Deal with it.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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as i said, i dont want to sound like an A$$hole

and saying im handsome does not mean girls are attracted, cuz as we all kno, physical doesnt get you pu$$Y

i just wonder why in the hell she would say somehting like that, cuz i consider that one of my few strenthgs, you kno?
 

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well the thing is most people/normal..dont come out and downright try to hurt someone's feelings by saying "you're ugly"

If anything..he may have been acting arrogant..and she was trying to knock him off his pedestal in a cruel way
 

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those are pretty good words, but this girl dont seem like the type to do that, shes the kind that seems always happy, etc...
 

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I finally found my twin:)

this is getting creepy but I guess an reply is in order, one of my girl-friends naged me about the same thing. We could be going home together after a party or from a club and she would be like, "I dont get why you always hook up with some girl, your not that attractive!!" offcourse predictions from her best friend(not me) says that we probably will sleep together........sorry, guess I didnt give you an answer, oh well at least now you know that there is another handsome boy out there that gets the same "neg-hits" WOW!!! revelation....could it really be that simple, I just realised that if you are anything like me(sounds like you are) then your friend might be irritated because your always c+f. and is it possible that her remarks about your apperance is just a neg-hit to knock you off your pedestal......GOD, Im goooood, now everyone form a sircle around me and chant my name............:cool: ..................:eek: .............:( (not even a little cheer).....bohoo....your all bastards, I hate you I hate you all!!!! he he he, seriously I dont:D
 

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Listen man, your ego is bruised because of a calllous chick..The first thing you should learn here is to be confident in yourself..and not worry about what 1 person out of 6 billion thinks of you.

My guess is you like her..and those words affected you..and you want to hear that she secretly likes you, but is saying the exact opposite..

Ares..good at what?? you just pretty much repeated what I said..dolt
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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i wonder why she said it, more than i care that she did.

Why would she say something which is completely off the wall? If i was ugly lol, and she was flirting with me, that just shows waht type of girl she is, and what standards she has.

AHhhhh confuzin women lol
 

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heres the deal.....

I take credit if I think I deserve it, I dindt this time, but hey we had to knock down a wall in my house just so my ego could have enough space....:D
 

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why do i care? prolly cuz i like her

What would the proper response to this if it ever happend again? i need a way to be C+F if this happened again.
 

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if by "Ego" you mean your distended porkrind laden belly..yes I agree the room needs to be extended
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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what would be the proper resonse to the ugly comment
 

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yea you can always throw back a "your so ugly..when you walk past the bathroom..the toilet flushes by itself" kinda joke
 

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what the hell is that going to do??

its pretty much repeated what the girl said..its not funny, original or ****y

get bent
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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