"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"UGLY" Guys who get chicks

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i think to straigthen this out, in my opinion, their facial features maybe ugly
but they their body is probably nice.

Huge biceps, six pack, etc etc

You could have UGLY facial features, but if you have the BODY and the ATTITUDE and GAME , then you can be a don juan

I think thats the bottom line
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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100% agree, when you appeal to the girls sexually your all of a sudden "good looking enough " for them
 
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alot girls I know say Usher's hot, but then they add something like "well.. not his face, but he has a hot body"

not to mention, he dresses nicely
 
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Most of the cats on this site are average..so i don't see the concern with looks comes from.

Now dressing better,being freindlier to women & bulking up is an issue here defintley.
 
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Originally posted by the_reader
100% agree, when you appeal to the girls sexually your all of a sudden "good looking enough " for them
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usher's face is so damn ugly
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is coming from a wrong mindset.

If you come from a place where you're judging people by their looks then you are NOT in your own reality. You have been socially blinded.
 
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Originally posted by iCandy
This is coming from a wrong mindset.

If you come from a place where you're judging people by their looks then you are NOT in your own reality. You have been socially blinded.
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you HAVE to judge people by their looks first. There is no way around this.. until you get to know them..
 
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Re: Re: "UGLY" Guys who get chicks

Originally posted by The_Shezzler
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

**Shezz Pats His Little Beer Belly**

Yea - you've got it spot on my friend...Oh but then again - my face is a 9 ;)

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im not saying "ALL WOMEN" but a good percentage of them since they are not all the same
 
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Re: Re: "UGLY" Guys who get chicks

Originally posted by The_Shezzler
So your saying that we have to have Attitude, Game AND a good Body..to be a Don Juan?

Attitude yes, Game yes, body is not essential - Check out Lovedrop from MM.

Its good to be in shape and it can help -but it is not essential to be good with women and get laid!

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If you don't have nice facial features, you can resort to having a nice body instead to improve your game with the hotties.

Having a Great body is always better than just having a body
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have a good looking face but my body is average. so heres my question

Whats better having a goodlooking face or a hot body?lets say that your body will never improve.
 
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What this thread is doing is you're looking at looks/body to validate reasons why you can't pick up women.

Like I said, it's looking at the wrong mindset. IF YOU HAVE TO JUDGE PEOPLE BY THEIR LOOKS first then you are looking at it the wrong way.
 
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I once met a guy who wasn't attractive in my opinion, nor did he have a good body, but he was so much fun to be with - he was witty, clever, charming, just great, and the way he fcuked me, oh I was in love with the way! Often girls look at a guy and think 'oh no' but when they speak to them for some time their feelings change.
 
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That's what I gather from you females.But then again you might not be too attractive yourself.

Soo....:eek: :down:
 
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Originally posted by Leah
I once met a guy who wasn't attractive in my opinion, nor did he have a good body, but he was so much fun to be with - he was witty, clever, charming, just great, and the way he fcuked me, oh I was in love with the way! Often girls look at a guy and think 'oh no' but when they speak to them for some time their feelings change.
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But this is just YOUR opinion. However Your opinion doesn't represent the opinion of MOST women. People will always judge just you based on 1st impression and there is no other way around it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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^man, where did she say that she DOESN'T judge by first impressions?

if you're witty enough within the beginning of a pickup, she will give you more time so she can see what you're like
 
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Usher is a very bad example. He's goodlooking.
 
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Re: Re: "UGLY" Guys who get chicks

Originally posted by Ice Cold
Just a big **** will do ;)
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Brother, Walk around Best Buy with your humongous ant eater danglin' and a face that looks like Milton Berle after getting smacked with an ugly stick and tell me how many chicks are going to grab ya and jump on it.
 
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