"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ugly guy I know is a DJ

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This guy I know named Harry is a huge DJ, all because of his great ability to converse with women. I mean, this guy is extremely ugly according to today's standard for attractiveness, and he's about as noticable as the wall in a crowded room. But after he says his first sentence to a woman, she's hooked. He's witty as a mofo w/ his fast NY accent and swagger.

So to all you guys who aren't so confident in your looks, work on the art of conversation. If you prove to be an attractive, fun, and interesting guy through your words, you can get laid everyday until you're fvcking 100!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I may question the getting laid everyday (lol) but most women who aren't solely superficial do enjoy the company of a guy that can easily hold a conversation with them. Being able to escalate to more intimate things is a necessity if a guy doesn't want to fall into the LJBF zone.
 

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NY accent? Ill try this, I can fake a NY accent more than I can fake a southern one :D
 

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Do you expect me to beleive this crap, you can't allure any hot babes by your words, it is all to do with the dudes body language and the perfect usage of his eyes before he has even introduced himself to his target girl.
As much as many of you dudes on here hate to acknowledge this a dudes good looks will definately help him in his ability to pick up the babes. :crackup:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PigAdlemPimp said:
Do you expect me to beleive this crap, you can't allure any hot babes by your words, it is all to do with the dudes body language and the perfect usage of his eyes before he has even introduced himself to his target girl.
As much as many of you dudes on here hate to acknowledge this a dudes good looks will definately help him in his ability to pick up the babes. :crackup:
Don't forget his tonality
 

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Doggystyle said:
Don't forget his tonality
The tone of the dudes speaking voice is extremely important, I fully agree with you, however it will only help you if use proper body language and eye contact with your target hot babe to make her like you before you talk. :yes:
 

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^ yep, how you use your voice plays a big part.
how many times have you seen a physically attractive woman only to find her voice to be annoying, turning you off? I know this has happened to me before
 

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Mr. Unique said:
NY accent? Ill try this, I can fake a NY accent more than I can fake a southern one :D
Does anyone here know if women are attracted to a heavy East Texas accent?
 

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Guys remember, ugly to you is probally "alright looking" for a girl.

You can't rate a guy's true hotness if ya aint got a pvssy, sorry.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well yeah to that extent.

But Ron to those chicks are is like an overweight chick with the best ever breasts to us.

Know what I mean?

Ron's totally ugly in our eyes, and most chick's eyes. But some girls would concider him doable.

It goes both ways. Guys do fat chicks all the time.

So it's not that unbelivable that some guy you'd concider ugly with a good personality is getting laid.
 

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PigAdlemPimp said:
The tone of the dudes speaking voice is extremely important, I fully agree with you, however it will only help you if use proper body language and eye contact with your target hot babe to make her like you before you talk. :yes:

yeah your body language and tonality need to be congruent to each other other wise it is going to look faked
 

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has it ever occured to you that women
1.have pitty on these men.
2.are too insecure to chat a goodlooking guy
3. go out of there way to make goodlooking guys jealous so they chat to less attractive men to make goodlookin guys feel small.
4. know they have no chance with a good looking guy and just dont bother with them to the point of hating them.
5. are just horny

true though a good convo -skill certainly helps.
 

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lurker said:
has it ever occured to you that women
1.have pitty on these men.
2.are too insecure to chat a goodlooking guy
3. go out of there way to make goodlooking guys jealous so they chat to less attractive men to make goodlookin guys feel small.
4. know they have no chance with a good looking guy and just dont bother with them to the point of hating them.
5. are just horny

true though a good convo -skill certainly helps.
Has it ever occured to you that not every single woman on this earth shares your superficial belief that looks are the most important thing out since oxygen?

God, sadly most guys on this site hold this untrue perception.

Newsflash: Unlike the stupid fvcking girls you grind on at night clubs every night, some women actually find wit just as attractive as a prominent jawline.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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lurker said:
has it ever occured to you that women
1.have pitty on these men.
2.are too insecure to chat a goodlooking guy
3. go out of there way to make goodlooking guys jealous so they chat to less attractive men to make goodlookin guys feel small.
4. know they have no chance with a good looking guy and just dont bother with them to the point of hating them.
5. are just horny

true though a good convo -skill certainly helps.

well if this is true then I guess ugly guys have it better than goodlooking guys, since ugly guys are always surrounded by a plague of insecure beautiful women. Fackin idiot! Do you realize how stupid that sounds?
 

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tr0ublemaker said:
This guy I know named Harry is a huge DJ, all because of his great ability to converse with women. I mean, this guy is extremely ugly according to today's standard for attractiveness, and he's about as noticable as the wall in a crowded room. But after he says his first sentence to a woman, she's hooked. He's witty as a mofo w/ his fast NY accent and swagger.

So to all you guys who aren't so confident in your looks, work on the art of conversation. If you prove to be an attractive, fun, and interesting guy through your words, you can get laid everyday until you're fvcking 100!
to those who arent confident in ur looks - WORK ON UR ****IN LOOKS!

troll post, i smell it
 

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PigAdlemPimp said:
Do you expect me to beleive this crap, you can't allure any hot babes by your words, it is all to do with the dudes body language and the perfect usage of his eyes before he has even introduced himself to his target girl.
As much as many of you dudes on here hate to acknowledge this a dudes good looks will definately help him in his ability to pick up the babes. :crackup:
THANK YOU!!!

by the way i know ur JezzDubbfield or w/e lol but ill forgive u

there is no way in hell an ugly guy has a chance with any hot girl who he doenst know "to win her over with his words" - she sees him, hes done

PERIOD
 

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Bvbidd said:
Well yeah to that extent.

But Ron to those chicks are is like an overweight chick with the best ever breasts to us.

Know what I mean?

Ron's totally ugly in our eyes, and most chick's eyes. But some girls would concider him doable.

It goes both ways. Guys do fat chicks all the time.

So it's not that unbelivable that some guy you'd concider ugly with a good personality is getting laid.


girls LOVE a big c0ck, and rons got 1, so that in itself makes him attractive.........thats basically equivalent to me seeing an ugly faced girl with the best biggest bubble butt EVER - id also think shes hot
 
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