"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hayabusa

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I ve only had ugly girlfriends:D ...at least so far.That's because my friends always have told me to go for the easy catch,girls that you can get laid fast,and I didn't want to appear too snob,and I respected my friends advice,but the thing is that now I kind of regret it because I think that it might have brought me this two problems:
1-I haven't enjoyed any moment in these relationships,and I bet neither they.I even regret having had sex with them,which I had to force myself.
2-Now this was supposed to give me some advantage in dealing with better looking girls,but it hasn't.I still look at pretty girls like godesses...something I ve always wanted but couldn't get,not even tried.And now that I m trying I dont think of my past exp usefull at all and I get nervous.
But my friends keep telling me to go for the easy,so I m kind of in the middle here..should I continue dating ugly girls...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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just so suave

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go for who youre actualy attracted too, not who your friends would go for
 
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My wife was not that attractive when we met, but I helped her pick out clothes, took her to a hair stylist, took her shopping for make-up, and as her self-image improved, so did her figure. She actually got more attractive as she got older. When she died, most of the people described as beautiful and being a graceful lady.
 
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break it off man, its not worth it. and ur friends are loser afc.
its the same as gettin a job just to pay the bills and never looking for a job that ur happy in.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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