"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ugly Divorce

Vantagepoint34

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There are times where there is nothing we can do. The best thing you can do is cut ties as much as you can. Also Getting married in the first place was the hardest step. Now the hardest part is stepping down. Just take a walk. At the end of the day people care about you. Or have noticed what has been going on for a while.


-Vantagepoint
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dear Vantage,
There are no pretty divorces...You will get the assagai up the rectum,but you will recover and be a better Man for it!
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear Vantage,
There are no pretty divorces...You will get the assagai up the rectum,but you will recover and be a better Man for it!
Thank you Scaramouche.
 

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Vantage- I've gone down that same path you are on. Scara is right, you will live to see a better day and become a better person. Find somebody you can talk to that is a good listener.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tictac said:
Probable belongs in ''Married Men".

Scar is right. Divorce is war and war is Hell.
For this one you can't leave one stone unturned. And make sure everything is settled before you move on. Does that sound right?
 

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Howiestern said:
Vantage- I've gone down that same path you are on. Scara is right, you will live to see a better day and become a better person. Find somebody you can talk to that is a good listener.
The issue is that she always gets too involved. She isn't aloof enough.
 
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