"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ugly chic with fragile ego

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there is this ugly gal in my university..the stupid **** added me on facebook a while back and was friendly and would like every post and so on. She's an AW but with 0 social skills. So she makes up for it in the cyber world with posting pics every other day and so on. Now today she posted some weird photo on her wall about some infant girl who had burns on her face and it said if you "like" or "share" that photo then her parents will get 3 cents per every like..hahahahaha.

I just get irritated with all these.."do this and her parents will get money".."forward that **** and this guy will get a kidney transplant"..i mean are people realy so stupid.

I usually ignore this sort of things but this girl is just someone who I can't stand. So I commented "and if you don't like or share this I'll give her parents a $1000"

Which was funny in my opinion..but no she got all protective as if the child was her own own illegitimate daughter. She says "why dont you give the money instead of commenting". I'm like coz I know the imaginary parents of these imaginary child are not getting any money no matter how many likes or shares you do. its like one of those "forward this message by 12 am and you'll find your true love or you will die"

few hours later i check she commented something but deleted the comment and then removed me as a friend..hahaha..And I couldn't stop laughing how easy it is to press someones nerves with stupid things. girls are so stupid.

Couple minutes later she texts me I'm jerk without a heart. Usually I'd just say it was a joke and all but then I'm like screw this..its fun being a jerk..so I call her(don't wanna leave evidence) and tell her "ok if you come over and blow me, ill share the photo and give the parents a 100 bucks, deal ?"

I guess bridges are burned now. but it was fun
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DonGorgon said:
ugly women are treated like 10s by 10000s of desperat AFC men all the time...
Ugly or not ugly, most girls I meet would receive it, they'd receive it hard, in every single crevice.
 

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DonGorgon said:
ugly women are treated like 10s by 10000s of desperat AFC men all the time...
That's true, but only on facebook. Even the ugly girl would not want to be seen with those dweebs lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wait, what?...

You were friends with someone you don't like. You commented on her picture. She responded. You got butthurt. She deletes you...

And then you come here and brag about this like it's some HUGE fiasco. And girls are stupid, right? You know if she saw this post she'd probably laugh hysterically at the time you wasted with this...

Why so butthurt about something so minor? o_O I really don't get it.

Your ego appears much more fragile than hers, BTW.
 

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LOL... b*tches be crazy and stupid. Tell us something we don't already know.

Also why are you even wasting time with an ugly girl? Moreover, why are you wasting time posting on sosuave about this ugly girl? 5 out of 10 or below = not even worth mentioning about. Even if you f*cked a 5 or below, we don't want to hear it.
 
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JonJaper said:
LOL... b*tches be crazy and stupid. Tell us something we don't already know.

Also why are you even wasting time with an ugly girl? Moreover, why are you wasting time posting on sosuave about this ugly girl? 5 out of 10 or below = not even worth mentioning about. Even if you f*cked a 5 or below, we don't want to hear it.
Speak for yourself, I like stories that involve erotica and lots of spice and all things nice.
 

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Halcyonique said:
Wait, what?...

You were friends with someone you don't like. You commented on her picture. She responded. You got butthurt. She deletes you...

And then you come here and brag about this like it's some HUGE fiasco. And girls are stupid, right? You know if she saw this post she'd probably laugh hysterically at the time you wasted with this...

Why so butthurt about something so minor? o_O I really don't get it.

Your ego appears much more fragile than hers, BTW.
I dont consider cyber "friendship" as friendship. However, I don't reject anyones request without a reason coz I might not be interested in them but she might have a hot a friend and its always good to have a large network.

the reason I posted this is coz it shows how girls are these days. Slightest form of criticism to their "holier than thou" self is not acceptable to them.

And I would have done this even if the girl was a hottie. I no longer get affected with rejections or bad behaviour from girls unless I'm emotionally invested in them
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Halcyonique said:
Wait, what?...

You were friends with someone you don't like. You commented on her picture. She responded. You got butthurt. She deletes you...

And then you come here and brag about this like it's some HUGE fiasco. And girls are stupid, right? You know if she saw this post she'd probably laugh hysterically at the time you wasted with this...

Why so butthurt about something so minor? o_O I really don't get it.

Your ego appears much more fragile than hers, BTW.
I dont consider cyber "friendship" as friendship. However, I don't reject anyones request without a reason coz I might not be interested in them but she might have a hot a friend and its always good to have a large network.

the reason I posted this is coz it shows how girls are these days. Slightest form of criticism to their "holier than thou" self is not acceptable to them.

And I would have done this even if the girl was a hottie. I no longer get affected with rejections or bad behaviour from girls unless I'm emotionally invested in them
 

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Halcyonique said:
Wait, what?...

You were friends with someone you don't like. You commented on her picture. She responded. You got butthurt. She deletes you...

And then you come here and brag about this like it's some HUGE fiasco. And girls are stupid, right? You know if she saw this post she'd probably laugh hysterically at the time you wasted with this...

Why so butthurt about something so minor? o_O I really don't get it.

Your ego appears much more fragile than hers, BTW.
^This.

Pointless thread is pointless.
 
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JonJaper said:
Yeah...but not when it's an ugly girl.
It's all subjective. What is one man's ugly is another man's hot and vice versa.
 

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JonJaper said:
LOL... b*tches be crazy and stupid. Tell us something we don't already know.

Also why are you even wasting time with an ugly girl? Moreover, why are you wasting time posting on sosuave about this ugly girl? 5 out of 10 or below = not even worth mentioning about. Even if you f*cked a 5 or below, we don't want to hear it.
Actually we need to have a couple people on this site who plow through HB4.2s and who post up their adventures like the lechers they are. Instead of 10magnet (some pick up instructor) we'd have 4.2magnet.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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