uglos trying to pick you up

[pyros]

Hello,

dont you get offended when a girl that you consider way below your sexual market value tries to pick you up or tries to seduce you?

I mean, in the last year at least 5 girls that I did not like (HB-5 to 6) tried to seduce me in some way...brrrbbbb...it is just disturbing/disgusting.

I consider I look good so why on Earth do they think I could be even remotely interested? Does this happen to you as well?

P.S.
I read some thread here about a guy complained that this same issue happened to him and that he started to gain muscle and as he gained more and more, he noticed that HB's6-7 started to come to him. He gain five more kg of muscle, and HB's7-8 started to approach him, and so the uglos stopped approaching him.

Do you think is true?

 

[Genesis5]

I've had some of the best sex in my life with 5s. You're not gods gift to earth, as long as they are clean and take care of themselves, depending on your comfort level. Just have fun with it.

I don't get offended, thats a pompous ass thing to say. Get over yourself.

 

[Sofomore]

I sense a little bitterness in your post. Sounds like you aren't pulling the type of girl you want. Maybe look inside and find out why you are getting approached by "uggos".

I don't get offended, I am flattered. I politely reject them and go on with my business.

 

[pyros]

I do get kind of offended yes, because when a girl which is not attractive, or very little, thinks you may like them, it means that in their head you're at the same level of sexual value, (more or less) and definetely im not a 5 neither a
6.

For cute girls, it is me the one that has to approach them, they normally dont.
Besides, there is nothing that annoys me more than an HB5-6 offering me sex straightforward. They think that just because shes a woman and offers you to have sex, you're gonna say yes just because. Brrrbbrbbbb...

I just dont know how the heck you have sex with girls you do not find attractive, really. I'd rather wait half a year to have sex with a cute girl, than bang five HB5.

 

[henrea4]

I just dont know how the heck you have sex with girls you do not find attractive, really.

Jack Daniels

 

[Genesis5]

I do get kind of offended yes, because when a girl which is not attractive, or very little, thinks you may like them, it means that in their head you're at the same level of sexual value, (more or less) and definetely im not a 5 neither a
6.

For cute girls, it is me the one that has to approach them, they normally dont.
Besides, there is nothing that annoys me more than an HB5-6 offering me sex straightforward. They think that just because shes a woman and offers you to have sex, you're gonna say yes just because. Brrrbbrbbbb...

I just dont know how the heck you have sex with girls you do not find attractive, really. I'd rather wait half a year to have sex with a cute girl, than bang five HB5.

You're the douchebag with the affliction t-shirt right? If a girl has the guts to come up to a guy that may not be all that attractive, at least she's not a prudent *****. Has nothing to do with lowering your value. She's attracted, its primal.

With that attitude, no wonder you can't get quality women.

I'd work on your inner game, you're very beta.

/thread

 

[Ronaldo7]

The work you put into yourself should reflect on the outside. I understand the OP's view. He has a right to be offended. If i took the time to look nice and i also take care of myself, i would be offended that someone beneath thinks i would even glance at them.

If a fat guy crushes on a fit girl, he should know deep down that he will never get that. The fit girl obviously takes care of herself and is self-aware of how she dresses, etc. However, the fat guy doesn't care at all and would think its plausible for him to go up to her.

Whenever girls i don't deem worthy enough on my attraction scale approach me, i don't even glance at them. They will get the hint sooner or later, since they will be talking to the wall.

 

[amazingJ]

Hello,

dont you get offended when a girl that you consider way below your sexual market value tries to pick you up or tries to seduce you?

I mean, in the last year at least 5 girls that I did not like (HB-5 to 6) tried to seduce me in some way...brrrbbbb...it is just disturbing/disgusting.

I consider I look good so why on Earth do they think I could be even remotely interested? Does this happen to you as well?

P.S.
I read some thread here about a guy complained that this same issue happened to him and that he started to gain muscle and as he gained more and more, he noticed that HB's6-7 started to come to him. He gain five more kg of muscle, and HB's7-8 started to approach him, and so the uglos stopped approaching him.

Do you think is true?

He's offended because he thinks he should be getting hotter chicks. A girl's looks do not determine who she will hit on. If she, whether ugly or not, finds you attractive that is a compliment to you. If you don't like her, then be polite and say no.

 

[amazingJ]

I do get kind of offended yes, because when a girl which is not attractive, or very little, thinks you may like them, it means that in their head you're at the same level of sexual value, (more or less) and definetely im not a 5 neither a
6.

For cute girls, it is me the one that has to approach them, they normally dont.
Besides, there is nothing that annoys me more than an HB5-6 offering me sex straightforward. They think that just because shes a woman and offers you to have sex, you're gonna say yes just because. Brrrbbrbbbb...

I just dont know how the heck you have sex with girls you do not find attractive, really. I'd rather wait half a year to have sex with a cute girl, than bang five HB5.

No, it does not mean that in their head you have an equivalent sexual value. More likely, they are not thinking about sexual values and just simply find you attractive. You have no experience. No wonder Genesis thinks you're a beta. By the way, being polite gets you a long way. Being bitter will help you lose your respect with others.

 

[frontseatjuan]

The work you put into yourself should reflect on the outside. I understand the OP's view. He has a right to be offended. If i took the time to look nice and i also take care of myself, i would be offended that someone beneath thinks i would even glance at them.

If a fat guy crushes on a fit girl, he should know deep down that he will never get that. The fit girl obviously takes care of herself and is self-aware of how she dresses, etc. However, the fat guy doesn't care at all and would think its plausible for him to go up to her.

Whenever girls i don't deem worthy enough on my attraction scale approach me, i don't even glance at them. They will get the hint sooner or later, since they will be talking to the wall.

Is it just me or not that when I have improved my appearance and become reasonably attractive, I have to learn to give the "I'm not interested" hint to women. This can sometimes come off as rather ****y and arrogant.

The funny thing is that now I feel kind of sympathize for hot girls who would have to avoid men hitting on them constantly.

 

[confuscioused]

Hello,

dont you get offended when a girl that you consider way below your sexual market value tries to pick you up or tries to seduce you?

I mean, in the last year at least 5 girls that I did not like (HB-5 to 6) tried to seduce me in some way...brrrbbbb...it is just disturbing/disgusting.

I consider I look good so why on Earth do they think I could be even remotely interested? Does this happen to you as well?

P.S.
I read some thread here about a guy complained that this same issue happened to him and that he started to gain muscle and as he gained more and more, he noticed that HB's6-7 started to come to him. He gain five more kg of muscle, and HB's7-8 started to approach him, and so the uglos stopped approaching him.

Do you think is true?

Dude get over yourself!! At least they have the gonads to make it obvious and aren't self conscious and snobby like a lot of cute girls. They have nothing to lose because they've been rejected many times before. Take it as a compliment as I do. Average girls that are perceived as ugly are typically more real and have a personality as well and aren't full of themselves.

 

[AlphaAchiever]

Hello,

dont you get offended when a girl that you consider way below your sexual market value tries to pick you up or tries to seduce you?

I mean, in the last year at least 5 girls that I did not like (HB-5 to 6) tried to seduce me in some way...brrrbbbb...it is just disturbing/disgusting.

I consider I look good so why on Earth do they think I could be even remotely interested? Does this happen to you as well?

P.S.
I read some thread here about a guy complained that this same issue happened to him and that he started to gain muscle and as he gained more and more, he noticed that HB's6-7 started to come to him. He gain five more kg of muscle, and HB's7-8 started to approach him, and so the uglos stopped approaching him.

Do you think is true?

I dont mind getting hit on or get flirts from less hotter women. Last night I was ordering sushi and I have a pretty dominant frame (and I am also good looking) and I noticed right away a girl 10 feet away who just looked at me like "oh I wanna **** that guy". It felt good, even though I would only rate her a 5,5 at best, but lets say another girl, a hot girl would have been at that same restaurant, she would have noticed this, and this would give me social proof and that would have made it easier for me to approach the hot chick.

However, if the girl (5,5) starts touching you like crazy and just being annoying, I would tell her to get off from me, if I wasnt interested, but for a short moment this could be ok, and simultaneosely give me some social proof, women pick up on this very quickly.

 

[Ronaldo7]

Is it just me or not that when I have improved my appearance and become reasonably attractive, I have to learn to give the "I'm not interested" hint to women. This can sometimes come off as rather ****y and arrogant.

The funny thing is that now I feel kind of sympathize for hot girls who would have to avoid men hitting on them constantly.

Exactly. We can't share the same success, since we don't share the same problems.

It doesn't matter if it comes as ****y and arrogant. Don't change who you are to appease anyone.

@confuscioused: Because you bang their personalities, right? It totally makes sense. At the end of the day, they are still ugly and won't get anything.

 

[Mike32ct]

Just because she's fat/ugly doesn't mean that she doesn't know what a good looking guy looks like.

I don't think women typically approach who they think are their equals. Everybody (generally) wants to "pay less for more" and will aim for someone better looking. There's nothing to lose.

If you suddenly lost your looks (for whatever reason), would you also forget what a good looking girl looks like? Of course not.

The only potential negative I can see here is negative social proof and it's effect on other women. If I had multiple fatties approach me, I'd leave the bar (alone) lol.

 

[020204]

The difference in genders is that males kind of act within their boundaries, many women today won't really care. If you were to compare overweight or uglo females to their male counterparts, particularly in a bar scenario you would see a marked difference in entitlement. Men possibly have a much better understanding of SMV.

 

[Mike32ct]

The difference in genders is that males kind of act within their boundaries, many women today won't really care. If you were to compare overweight or uglo females to their male counterparts, particularly in a bar scenario you would see a marked difference in entitlement. Men possibly have a much better understanding of SMV.

Agreed.

 

[Bible_Belt]

16 posts and no one has used the word 'blowj0b' yet.

 

[Stagger Lee]

If even ugly girls don't try to pick you up or show you their attracted, then you won't be attractive to the average and above average girls that you do have to pursue and work for. So in that sense it's a good thing.

It is offensive in the sense that these ugly women wouldn't even try unless they thought and have been successful with better looking guys. That's the offensive thing is that ugly girls can get good looking guys with the minimum of effort. And the average to below average guy can't even get an ugly girl he doesn't even really want.

And I believe women know dam well that they are dating up. If anything women are more aware of leagues and their own attractiveness than men are. On some level women know they are at an advantage and they like it very much. Women are the ones enforcing leagues and hypergamy.

 

[Who Dares Win]

16 posts and no one has used the word 'blowj0b' yet.

I agree as long as we talk about girls that are pretty in face altought overweight, fat girls with good faces are a great option for blowj0bs but ugly girls with ugly faces honestly not.