"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Before anybody tries to get started on me I'm not gay I don't overanalyze how guys look,I don't endorse fatness or not carrying yourself well.Anway on to the thread.For all the guys out there that think they are ugly stop it right now.You are most likely not as ugly as you think.I am a guy that has not had good luck with women and it was all because of how I carried myself.I have had weight problems since I was 10 and played a very big part in shaping me but now I realise I am not the ugliest guy that ever lived like I thought.I am 6 3 270 working to lose weight but for me I never got any kind of female attention before I turned 21.When I said any I mean any.No girlfriend,kiss,no good female friend.Heck no female never called me just to talk that's how serious it was.I thought because I was fat that I was the ugliest guy that ever lived and no one would want me.I got teased as a fat kid throughout high school.1 female ever commented on how I looked in my life she said I was OK.Of course being in my negative thinking I didn't even think that.To me I was ugly like sin.I walked with my head down,I wore 1 jeans 5 days a week,one T shirt a few times a week and so on.Now for the first time ever I have cared about how I carried myself.I have slimmed down somewhat losing 30 lbs and counting I match my clothes well I always make sure I put effort in my appearance.Now from that for the first time ever I have females tell me I'm handsome and cute and all of that.Now I'm not good looking I don't get a rush but moving from absolute zero degrees to 30s 40s
is an improvement.

My point here is that most guys are not really ugly.Most guys are average to good looking.If you are genuinely ugly you will know it and if you are genuinely ugly so what.That's not the end of the world use the other things god gave you to your advantage.If you are genuinely ugly that means a lot more people probably consider you ugly than good or average looking.The reverse goes for good looking guys.Heck even if you're the ugliest guy that ever lived there will be at least one woman that would consider you good looking.

If you wanna know what ugly is most women consider these guys ugly.This is what ugly is.I'm sure you don't look like this.

http://image.com.com/mp3/images/genie_images/story/stree****ch/biggie.gif

http://www.greensleeves.net/pics/shabba.jpg

http://www.uglypeople.com/ugly_men.php

http://archives.cnn.com/2000/SHOWBIZ/News/01/26/showbuzz/mick.jagger.jpg
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I agree with carrying yourself part.
When I walk confidently girls pay attention! I had a girl open her eyes wide when she saw me strut to back seat of the bus, she then moved to the seat next to mine. But I didn't open her.
 

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mrRuckus said:
That makes absolutely no sense whatsoever.

Yes they are.All guys and I mean all guys have faces that have differing viewpoints by females but most guys have faces where there is no general consensus about them.Even Brad Pitt has differing viewpoints on his face.While most females would consider him good looking a few would consider him average or ugly but a lot more women than not will consider him good looking.The same thing goes for Justin Timberlake or Taye Diggs or any regular guy that women consider good looking.That's what being truly good looking is 7 or 8 or whatever number of women will consider you good looking.The others will consider you average or ugly.To be a truly ugly guy a lot more women will consider you outright ugly than they will average or good looking.Most guys have faces that are in the middle.5 or less out of 10 girls might say they are ugly,4 might say they are good looking, and 1 might say they are average and so on.Remember I am only dealing with faces here not bodies.Cause a fat guy can have a face that's considered good looking but the fat guy will have his ratings drop dramatically or a super skinny guy can have a face that females consider good looking but because he looks like a twig he will get no women and an average looking guy can have a totally muscular body and he will get a lot more attention because of his body.This is what I'm getting at here.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the_milkman said:
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OMG, this is soooo crazy:
http://www.uglypeople.com/uploaded/104969/a5.jpg (but photoshop-faked :-D)
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I don't apologise for posting off-topic, since this is in fact just another useless "looks"-thread (in disguise) :D

*lol, internet!*

Yes that site is very crazy but it really and truly shows what being ugly means.There is no debate that those people are hideously ugly there's no greay area there like most people they are scary.
 
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