"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ughhhh fell for the best friend

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long story short i hooked up with a really good friend of mine and me and her both agreed that were just friends and i honestly want to keep it that way. problem is i cannot get her out of my head. ive never felt this way over a girl, i kno this is may be pushing it but i feel like im in love with her. i want to move on from the one time hookup and just be friends with her, but it feels impossible. help much needed im a wreck
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Just go and do a search on this subject. There's about a million threads just like this one.

Not trying to be a jerk, but this question has been asked and answered here many many times
 

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How do you define hooking up?
 

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It's amazing what a whiff of undergarments will do to a man, let alone a sixteen year old isn't it?

Sh*t who knows go for it her interest level in you had to be there if she wanted to jump in the sack. Unless you were a total idiot in bed which is impossible at age 16 anyway, because you all suck at age 16, she probably still likes you. I say go up to her, tell her "Remember when I said I thought we should just leave things at that and stay friends?" Her "Yeah" You "Well I don't", drop your arms to her waist and kiss her. She'll be your girlfriend tomorrow if you have the balls.

By the way, STFU you don't love her reading that made me wanna hurl.
 

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jmm854 said:
It's amazing what a whiff of undergarments will do to a man, let alone a sixteen year old isn't it?

Sh*t who knows go for it her interest level in you had to be there if she wanted to jump in the sack. Unless you were a total idiot in bed which is impossible at age 16 anyway, because you all suck at age 16, she probably still likes you. I say go up to her, tell her "Remember when I said I thought we should just leave things at that and stay friends?" Her "Yeah" You "Well I don't", drop your arms to her waist and kiss her. She'll be your girlfriend tomorrow if you have the balls.

By the way, STFU you don't love her reading that made me wanna hurl.
i have no reason to do that, why would i want to mess it up with a girl im really good friends with when i have a bunch of girls at the moment that like me and one ive kinda hooked up with aalready. its not necessary, its not something i need to risk, i just want to get over her and still be friends with her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thats gonna be hard, i see her all the time

i guess i have oneitis but a very differnt kind than the type id usally get.
 
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