"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ugh, went to a wedding with a date, getting oneitis

garruk

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ugh, so this past weekend i went to wedding with a girl i hang out wiht. (destination wedding)

being with her for the last 48+ hours constantly has gotten me really attached. mainly because im so used to her being there. yikes.


need some help to get back to being me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Romeobadboi

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know this if you really want her, you gota be you, by being mr oneitis,,,, you ll lose her, motivation enough?
 
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