Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ugh New Semester New Troubles

The Master Disaster

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Ok, I'm good with women now. I can get there interest. Now here is the trouble. I am in Personal Fitness with 3 chicks who sit next to me. I know one of them. She is on good terms with me. Her friend declined to sit beside her and sat by me. The whole period kept making eye jestures at me. Then the 3rd girl sat next to the girl i know. So now i have 3 girls next to me. They all are good looking and I am stuck. I don't know anyone else in the class, and I mean I get bored listening to them. The girl I know, I don't know very well. I just know she thinks i'm funny. I've known her for at least 5 years. I don't know much about her personal life. UGH! Some help would be greatly appreciated.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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GateKeeper

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Disaster... clearly define what your issue is.

Are you just simply bored?
If you are bored with them, tell them,

"wow, all you guys talk about is XYZ. I listened to it for 2 days because your cute, but if you want to keep someone like me around, you're going to have to start talking about more exciting things!"

they'll probably act offended, and maybe they might be sincerely offended.... dont pay any attention. SMILE THE WHOLE TIME. Suggest what they talk about!

"Passions, desires, ...physical desires..."
they might giggle, or smile and roll their eyes
"dreams, can you dance, can you sing, God help me, something!"
 
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