Ugh Im 43, shes a 21 year old party girl. We're so incompatible but I want to win this.

[Solomon]

In this thread OP is trying to turn a 21 year old club hoe into a housewife. OP you're 43 years old this chick clearly isn't trying to get married. It's just your turn OP

 

[pipeman84]

Last week I go to the gym shes there all over another guy , I didn't say nothing or even acknowledge her existence but in my mind I was laughing , laughing at myself for being so silly

Attractive young women these days can have virtually anyone and anything they want at a click of a button ..........as man the only way to protect your value is to price it extremely highly

I think that's a big misconception ... even just for sex (she has to be a pretty damaged woman to only want that) ... half of the guys at the gym are already in a relationship, a few of the rest are gay ... so how can she have virtually anyone, when in fact 60-70% of the guys are out of the market to begin with. And as I said, we're talking just sex, if she wants a relationship, then the odds of her getting what she wants are much lower.

 

[Solomon]

I think that's a big misconception ... even just for sex (she has to be a pretty damaged woman to only want that) ... half of the guys at the gym are already in a relationship, a few of the rest are gay ... so how can she have virtually anyone, when in fact 60-70% of the guys are out of the market to begin with. And as I said, we're talking just sex, if she wants a relationship, then the odds of her getting what she wants are much lower.

You bring up a fair point, women in theory can get anyone but we forget the Pareto principle is a real thing. So yea women can get anybody but not every woman wants just anyone. Men we look at this from a scarcity mindset because most men will never know what it's like to have unlimited options but not every option is necessarily a good one. Even if they are good once you have more options your standards will naturally rise and you will become pickier. This is why men who are in relationships or married are more attractive to women because they are already pre-selected however those men are not available

 

[skipfontaine22]

In this thread OP is trying to turn a 21 year old club hoe into a housewife. OP you're 43 years old this chick clearly isn't trying to get married. It's just your turn OP

What? I am not trying to make anyone my wife or get married. Do I want her as my girlfriend? no.

Have I caught some slight feelings? Yeah, maybe.

 

[Murk]

I don't think you're autistic, probably just a thinker. This doesn't end in marriage and kids, as long as you know that, do your thing while it lasts. Use her to come out of your shell, her outgoing nature can and will rub off on you if you let it.