Ug friend of mine telling me not to gain weight

[MuayThai]

Lol Ugly girl just wants to hold you back... honestly people DO NOT want you to get any better, especially if that means better than them.

Put the weight on. I guarrentee it'll do more for your pick up than ANY thing else.

peace

 

[sinner]

You don't need to be bulky to get chicks. Really huge biceps are not necessarily attractive. They may even be a turn off. Just get some tight, lean muscle as someone said. A good muscular abdominal area will help.

 

[pooparu]

Lol Ugly girl just wants to hold you back... honestly people DO NOT want you to get any better, especially if that means better than them.

Put the weight on. I guarrentee it'll do more for your pick up than ANY thing else.

peace

Wrong.

I'm about 5' 8" like 125, but I'm naturally "cut", if thats what you wanna call it. all my body is tone, I've got good abs, pretty nice bis, etc, but I'm small, I just get away with it because I'm toned.

Reason I say all this? Its BS that you need to get jacked, or get riched, etc etc, to get chicks, ****ing chill the **** out. Stop making socializing with women such a huge project. "OMG I need to get jacked, then I need to get armani suits, then I need to buy a corvette, then I need to stand in the mirror and yell affirmations, and then I can get laid, WOOO!!". there are naturally successful guys that don't have ANY of that **** and still get women.

Personally, I just wanna work on my chest a bit more then I'll be good, maybe an extra 10 lbs is going to be enough for me, 135 seems like a gerat weight for me, because of my build.

Anyway man, stop worrying about this, and I think people are way to paranoid. Just because a girl is ugly doesn't mean she doesn't find the same traits that an HB does attractive in a man. I bet if you asked an UG if she liked a confident, well built guy she's going to sa y yes, just like an HB would. And most women (no matter how evil you think they are), dont think "How can I hold him back so that he will never succeed with women, MUAHAHAHA".
Really.

 

[MuayThai]

Wrong...ha loser

Reason I say all this? Its BS that you need to get jacked, or get riched, etc etc, to get chicks, ****ing chill the **** out.

I think you need to take some of your own advice buddy and chill out.

Stop making socializing with women such a huge project. "OMG I need to get jacked, then I need to get armani suits, then I need to buy a corvette, then I need to stand in the mirror and yell affirmations, and then I can get laid, WOOO!!". there are naturally successful guys that don't have ANY of that **** and still get women.

And lets go find some guys who are naturally successfull with women. I bet you they are taller and bigger built than average, you dimwit.
Six foot tall is not average height, and this is considered ideal height for a man.

When did I say socialising was a massive project? When did I say you need money at all? When did I say you need to say affermations?

And most women (no matter how evil you think they are), dont think "How can I hold him back so that he will never succeed with women, MUAHAHAHA".
Really.

Do you want people to be better than you? I don't. Nobody does. Would you like it if there was a way to be much more attractive and everyone else was doing it and you couldn't, of course you wouldn't.
This is whats going on for the girl. She knows when he gets bigger girls will like him more, And then... What will happen to her.

If you want to get more girls. More muscle will help you, there are no if's and buts about it. Ask absolutly anyone, myself included.

Oh yeah and a little attitude change from you will get you more girls you skinny little dork.

 

[Quiksilver]

A: Work on your WHOLE body, just getting bigger arms and "toning" your abs (aka building more muscle and losing bodyfat to make them more visible) isn't going to do you a whole lot of good. Stick with the big three and youll gain some good mass on your entire body.

What are ' the big three '?

 

[dirtyvibe]

What are ' the big three '?

squat/ deadlift/ bench press

 

[pooparu]

Wrong...ha loser



I think you need to take some of your own advice buddy and chill out.



And lets go find some guys who are naturally successfull with women. I bet you they are taller and bigger built than average, you dimwit.
Six foot tall is not average height, and this is considered ideal height for a man.

When did I say socialising was a massive project? When did I say you need money at all? When did I say you need to say affermations?



Do you want people to be better than you? I don't. Nobody does. Would you like it if there was a way to be much more attractive and everyone else was doing it and you couldn't, of course you wouldn't.
This is whats going on for the girl. She knows when he gets bigger girls will like him more, And then... What will happen to her.

If you want to get more girls. More muscle will help you, there are no if's and buts about it. Ask absolutly anyone, myself included.

Oh yeah and a little attitude change from you will get you more girls you skinny little dork.

I'm glad I have to resort to flaming someone on the internet to feel secure .

Don't worry man I forgive you.

More muscle will help you but it's not needed.

First off, you don't know me, so stop acting like you do.

Second, no one was talking to you about chilling the **** out, and that's a general term. I'm telling the op to chill the **** out and stop worrying, his self image is what's important. If he accepts the fact right now and he can get better and bigger it will do him alot better than NOT accepting that he's not satisfied with his body and its going to give him a poor self image. so OP just say, "alright I wanna bulk up, it's cool that I'm this size but I wanna get better now". When you think "oh jeez I'm too skinny this will never work, I guess I should hit up the gym" all you are going to do is project a negative self image until you get the results you think you need, and God forbid you don't reach it, then you'll feel even worse. I know you can reach it bro, but in the mean time don't ta lk down to yourself.

And lets go find some guys who are naturally successfull with women. I bet you they are taller and bigger built than average, you dimwit.
Six foot tall is not average height, and this is considered ideal height for a man.

When did I say socialising was a massive project? When did I say you need money at all? When did I say you need to say affermations?

Again, no one was talking to you past the first paragraph, I don't know why you took it upon yourself to respond. And no, many guys that I know that are naturally successful aren't bigger built than average OR taller. in fact, I know a guy I work with back at home who's like 5'4" weights like 110ish or something, is a ****ing huge natural DJ. I mean *****es at our job LOVE this guy, the only reason he hasn't ****ed ALL of them is because some of them are under 18. And no its not some glamorous job, its telemarketing, he drives a red truck (nothing fancy), and isn't rich. He's skinnier and shorter than me yet this guy has tuaght me so much. Another guy is shorter than me, chubbier (not built, just chubby), and he too gets *****es like a ****ing rockstar, and he doesn't have a car, is a college student, and lives in an apartment near part of the projects. And he's not getting hood rat *****es, he's gettingn 9 and 10s that are studying for their masters or business degrees. Please, don't tell me this. The only things these guys do is try to look their best all the time and it WORKS. I learned alot of **** from these guys that made me much mreo successful. So I do n't have to go "find" any, There are more than enough at my job (I could list a few more but there's no need to). And agian, you're a big man for insulting someone on the internet :woo: .

Do you want people to be better than you? I don't. Nobody does. Would you like it if there was a way to be much more attractive and everyone else was doing it and you couldn't, of course you wouldn't.
This is whats going on for the girl. She knows when he gets bigger girls will like him more, And then... What will happen to her.

If you want to get more girls. More muscle will help you, there are no if's and buts about it. Ask absolutly anyone, myself included.

Oh yeah and a little attitude change from you will get you more girls you skinny little dork.

This is the best part. If people are better than me I congratulate them, not hate them. No offense bro, but you have a jealousy issue. everyone has different skills and its great when someone challenges me or does something that I can't, it motivates me to push harder, and its always great to see another guy to succeed. I don't do things that everyone else was doing, so again, maybe you like to follow the crowd, but I'm secure in myself.

Plus, you don't know this girl, it's getting ridiculous here at Sosuave how EVERY guy knows what a woman is thinking.

1. You aren't a mindreader.
2. You aren't a woman.
3. You don't know this girl.

For all you know this guy could like perfectly fine or she could be trying to give him support, you know like ...*gASP* friends do?

More muscle is great for getting girls, I've been working out this summer, but if you're self image is **** it's not going to do anything to help you. I've got friends that look great, I mean model material, yet they don't get laid as much as the aforementioned guys.

And I'll keep my attitude, you on the other hand need to get some confidence so that you don't have to spend your time calling people names on an internet forum. It's also funny how you call me a dork on a website about picking up women .

Anyway OP, change for yourself, not for others.

 

[dannowillbookem]

im a skinny zepplin sex machine. tell anyone who says you need to gain weight to go commit an unnatural act with themselves.

 

[SexinEar]

^
so how do you pull it off, i shure cant

 

[dannowillbookem]

dress the frame nicely, i prefer well fitting clothes, bootcut low ride jeans with usuall a band shirt/polo/button down.

past that its not as much about the body as it is about the spirit.