"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ufo?...........

cave dweller

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Hey,

I don't believe in the following and I think it would be interesting to hear your views:

1...UFO's
2...Crop Circles
3...Alien abductions

I am not saying that we are alone, I am just saying that the above is all bull sytch..........

I believe that they are out there, but, they have not came here yet.

ie:---We are not alone...........

Any comments?

cave dweller
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I believe in the possibility of UFOs. An alien race *can* be observing us without making contact, because their system of logical thought may be different from ours.

However most UFO sightings tend to be false. They are either natural scientific phonomena, optical illusions, heat-caused, etc.
 

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Originally posted by cave dweller
I believe that they are out there, but, they have not came here yet.
Lets do some "reversed engineering". Lets say our ship managed to reach Mars and found a civilization there. What do you think will happen next? I am sure people will try to establish some sort of communication with that civilization.
So you are right, seem they didn't come yet.

But what is they simple cannot establish communication with us? What if they are too different to do that?
"I know that I don't know anything" (The good old Socrates)
 

quest

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of course UFO's are real.

UFO - Unidentified Flying Object.

meaning anything air born that you can't recognise, technically, is a UFO.

Aliens - Life on other planets, i definently agree with. We've only located a handful of planets, and the number of planets that are probably out there is massive.
Are these life forms super smart and strong aliens? or are they primitive organisms? - i don't know.
Its possible, that we are the most advanced species in space.
 

cave dweller

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proof.........?

Hey,

What I am sayin is that there is not one example of hard evidence, that they exist........

Are we alone? NO.......

But, I don't believe they have arrived here yet.....

cave dweller
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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how can you not belive in crop circles lol, you may choose not to belive they are the wokr of aliens, but the fact is they are there weather its an alien or prankster, so i dont understand how you can not belive in it lol
 
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