"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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UFC type Submissions and Techniques

Harp

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Part of being a DJ is being able to protect yourself and others.

Post videos or links or UFC type Submissions and Techniques.

www.ufc.com only has a few. If you know any other sources, then POST THEM!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DarthJuan

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UFC type moves aren't always applicable to real world situations.
You don't wanna be rolling around on the ground in a real fight...like out on a concrete street or on the floor of a bar where some drunk bystander can stomp on your head.

The only way to learn this stuff is to actual get sparring experience. One should sign up for some Muy Thai or something.
 

WORKEROUTER

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One should know how to protect himself. I've been studying martial arts since I was in elementary school, and it gives you a higher degree of confidence when out on the streets, whether with your gf, friends, or mom.

Study a mix of martial arts. I suggest the following:

Muay Thai (excellent standup techniques...knees and elbows are powerful tools)
Boxing (get the feeling of getting hit and hitting...lean to feel pressure with another opponent in a live situation)
Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, Judo, Sambo, Wrestling (ground fighting is essential. BJJ will give you an excellent foundation, but wrestling and judo can give you an even better takedown knowledge)
Kali (Knife fighting is simply awesome. It's legal to carry one, too)
Krav Maga (if you can find a good krav maga school, it's great. dirty techniques are taught, which can be added in addition to a solid martial arts repertoire.)
 

SELF-MASTERY

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self-mastery= ww2 combatives, riot baton, and whip carrying psycho.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MrS

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Order vitor belfort's dvds from ebay, they have a lot of useful little submissions.
 
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